So after the last breakup, especially realizing that my ex had infact NOT cheated on me and like the other times in the past I accused,fussed and argued to the point of no return, I decided I wanted to 'attract him back or something better'. From what was absolutely no communication what so ever and he is the stubborn kind, fate worked in a funny way yesterday. Monday night we were at a gathering where I ended up being near to a fight and he rushed to guard me from it even though it wasn't that serious. I smiled and he said ' Wow, i missed that smile. I love you so much.' I laughed cuz I am like really universe..certainly out of character for him and here you are making him say exactly what I visualized. We sat down together and spoke for hours. he has invited me to dinner as well the following night and have been speaking every day sincel. I intend on taking things slow, keeping an open mind and growing because I can confidently say I am in love with the person I am, I have not been able to say this in a long time.