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My friend just called me and told me how this specific guy that she was talking to before but then he cut her off just asked her to be his official gf. She still liked him even though he had ignored and didn't talk to her for almost 1.5 years.
This what she did:
1) She said she just worked on being happy.
2) She stopped stalking him on social media
3) She said she limited the amount of time she thought about him
4) She didn't visualize, use RS, say any affirmations, etc
5) She told herself that if this LOA stuff is true then he has to come back
6)She stopped caring about having a guy in her life and just made sure she was happy
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Great! She made herself the most important person. I think when we start on this journey to attract back our significant other, we tend to lose ourselves and put them on a pedestal. It sounds like your friend made being happy with herself the most important thing.. And it is. In finding happiness within yourself, you automatically let go of that other person a little, and you allow them to come back to you. In terms of RS/visualising, they are wonderful ways for me to increase my vibration.. If I had any negative feelings while doing them, I would forgo it. If you can think about your guy/girl and they bring you happiness, then you are on the right path. If you experience resistance thinking of them, it's best to try and let it go for a while and think of something else. Every day, it's just a matter of reaching for better and better feeling thoughts. LOA does the rest.
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Cherished wrote:
Great! She made herself the most important person. I think when we start on this journey to attract back our significant other, we tend to lose ourselves and put them on a pedestal. It sounds like your friend made being happy with herself the most important thing.. And it is. In finding happiness within yourself, you automatically let go of that other person a little, and you allow them to come back to you. In terms of RS/visualising, they are wonderful ways for me to increase my vibration.. If I had any negative feelings while doing them, I would forgo it. If you can think about your guy/girl and they bring you happiness, then you are on the right path. If you experience resistance thinking of them, it's best to try and let it go for a while and think of something else. Every day, it's just a matter of reaching for better and better feeling thoughts. LOA does the rest.
I totally agree with you Cherished! I'm really happy for her and I think we forget to be happy rather people find it difficult to believe that if you just stay happy and expect your guy to come then they will come back.