Hi all, 

  I'm new to this forum but not new to the Law of Attraction. There's a guy in my life I would like to attract and have a relationship with. Here are two factors:

Con - He lives out of state (he's in New York and I'm in New Orleans), and he now has a girlfriend. He was single when we met a little over two years ago, and I think he was more interested in me in the very beginning. But I always knew and felt a connection with him. In a strange twist of fate he ended up dating a girl briefly some time ago who lived in the same exact city as I do. I feel like that actually brought us closer together for a time because they stopped dating soon after I saw him in town when he was visiting her at that time. I've dated around and had a relationship since then but nothing comes of them. 

Pro - For what it's worth I have a couple of psychics I've talked to from time to time. Neither of them know one another and they say very similar things. They feel like we have a very deep connection and that we will be in a relationship. They said we will be together by August/September of this year, and they feel he and his current girlfriend will break up between February and April of this year. Though they've said before we'd be in a relationship with eachother by the fall/winter of 2015. Well he was in a relationship then, just not with me. With the girl he is with now. I've come to realize that a lot of their predictions do come true, it just may not happen in the time frame I'm initially told. 

That said, I've come to realize that the big key is really focusing on myself since the only thing I can control is me. I've been doing that a lot lately, working out almost every day, meditating, focusing on my career, gearing things to move to New York (it would bring us closer but I have SO many friends there and closer friends), having fun, etc.  I've also ready Elizabeth Daniels' ebook about the law of attraction for love and attracting a specific person. She also focuses on if that person is in a relationship with someone else. I'm not wishing them ill and I've been staying open to the universe of even meeting someone else, I just want to do the best I can to stay on track with this and I tell myself a new story that I will succeed with love this time. 

Thoughts? Any suggestions are welcome.