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Hey Everyone -
Thought I would check in as I know it's been a while since I've been around. I just needed a break is all.
In the meantime, I've manifested a great new job that I think could really lead me to good things. It's only been two days, but I feel like I've found my home. I'd been looking since I was laid off in early July and this kinda landed in my lap the middle of October. I did my best to believe that the right thing would come along at the right time...and it was far easier to be detached from the outcome for this than the one for my love.
Speaking of which, I think I'm ready to bring once again to bring him back to me. I'm not sure the direction to take at the moment, but at least I feel like I'm more in the right mind set knowing that I brought along this awesome job to me. I'm wondering as I slowly bring in personal items to decorate my new cubical, should I bring in photos of him and I as well? Do I refer to him as my boyfriend? Or so I just remain quiet on that subject and bring in other personal items? Any suggestions on new techniques to try this time around?
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I agree with LoveYourself about staying quiet about it unless you are absolutely sure you won't get into a potentially embarrassing situation. For example, if you were just chatting to someone casually at the bus stop, then I suppose you could get away with referring to him as your boyfriend and it certainly would give you the right mindset. But otherwise I think it's best not to mention it.
The important thing is that inside YOU know he is your boyfriend, so maybe treat it in the same way someone might have done in a past era, when they were seeing someone secretly, but had to keep quiet about it to others.
Last edited by Debbie (11/14/2015 6:31 pm)