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Im nervous from valentines day
Every page, social page, tv is spam with valentine.. what is special on this day.... but today I realized that everybody need a love from someone else and everybody dream about a relationship in deep your heart.. . yes we have to love yourself etc but how would life sad without love from another person? I think that we are socially creature..its nice love yourself but we dont give yourself the same feelings which we have when we are with a person who we love..we can huge yourself but we need huge from another person and this huge is more beautiful.. we can be alone and watch tv and feel happy but it will never happiness as when we are with our love.. .so we can a so much love yourself and be happy alone but my opinion is that absolutly everybody need love beautifuk realtionship and spent time with some person....
Maybe only me have this feelings but I know that I never will so happy like I can be when I will with my love.. and I dont think be obssesive ..I can have my hobbies and I dont have to spent all the time with him but its different when we know that we have a person who love us like we love me and that we have a beautiful relationship as whe we have just our friends, hobbies and family.. Im grateful for this people but I cant do things like with my love and these people we dont give these feel like my love.. I can love yourself so much but only my selflove and only my society without another people is not enough
Last edited by Laura1234 (2/14/2017 4:36 am)
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Re: Im nervous from valentines day
Yes Laura. Whatever you said is completely true. And I do not think anyone in this forum will disagree with the fact that he/she does not want someone to love him/her unconditionally. Everybody is need of love. Even a dog quenches for love. But the fact is how much love can you give to that person depends on how much love you have for yourself. Even an extreme introvert, who keeps herself aloof from social gatherings most of the time, wants from the bottom of her heart that there should be someone in her life who would understand her and love her as she is. That's unconditional love. But we humans know only conditional love. Because we are trained to love that way from our childhood. We have been trained that to give love to someone, that someone has to be or behave in our way. That same thing applies to self love. We keep on putting conditions to self love. We keep on nagging that bla bla thing is not good about me. So if we keep on banging our subconscious that we have some negative things in ourselves, then how can others appreciate us in entirety. That is why LoA teaches to love ourselves first. To accept ourselves as we are first. So if you love yourself unconditionally, then you can emote that unconditional love to others. And then ppl gets drawn towards you. And you meet that special person, who would love you unconditionally. So tell me Laura, isn't it better to get unconditional love rather than getting conditional love. Wouldn't it be better, if you find someone who can love you even if you are not correct in some ways or the other? That is all that is meant by self love.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY.. LOTS AND LOTS OF LOVE
Last edited by lovekinjal (2/14/2017 5:23 am)
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Re: Im nervous from valentines day
lovekinjal wrote:
Yes Laura. Whatever you said is completely true. And I do not think anyone in this forum will disagree with the fact that he/she does not want someone to love him/her unconditionally. Everybody is need of love. Even a dog quenches for love. But the fact is how much love can you give to that person depends on how much love you have for yourself. Even an extreme introvert, who keeps herself aloof from social gatherings most of the time, wants from the bottom of her heart that there should be someone in her life who would understand her and love her as she is. That's unconditional love. But we humans know only conditional love. Because we are trained to love that way from our childhood. We have been trained that to give love to someone, that someone has to be or behave in our way. That same thing applies to self love. We keep on putting conditions to self love. We keep on nagging that bla bla thing is not good about me. So if we keep on banging our subconscious that we have some negative things in ourselves, then how can others appreciate us in entirety. That is why LoA teaches to love ourselves first. To accept ourselves as we are first. So if you love yourself unconditionally, then you can emote that unconditional love to others. And then ppl gets drawn towards you. And you meet that special person, who would love you unconditionally. So tell me Laura, isn't it better to get unconditional love rather than getting conditional love. Wouldn't it be better, if you find someone who can love you even if you are not correct in some ways or the other? That is all that is meant by self love.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY.. LOTS AND LOTS OF LOVE
Well Said !!!!!! Happy Valentines Day
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