Hi all, 

I'm going to a friends new place on Feb 25 to celebrate my birthday (they were SO kind to host!). This is happening in exactly 2 weeks. Now a person that I've been in contact with, have feelings for, but want more from him, is someone I'd like to bring with me. We're friends and have a history together, and I want more. We are in contact, sparingly, and not currently at the point where i can just blantantly ask him to come. 

What are some ways that I can focus on him coming with me, and not bringing resistance in? I do have some resistance (I ran into his ex gf and she was talking about him so it seems they've reconnected but are not together), and am trying my best to CHILL OUT. Its more of my belief that it'll happen (him coming with me) that is probably standing in my way.

So lovely people of this forum, help, advice, and telling me to CHILL THE F OUT would be appreciated <3

Last edited by big_blue (2/12/2017 7:32 pm)