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    2/01/2017 3:23 pm  #1

    X-tina001
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    should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    Im dating this guy for a While now and everything seems to be fine. Theres just one thing: he has an exgirlfriend and a child. Because hes afraid that she wont let him see his child hes very careful, since she still has feelings for him. He told me this since the beginning, so I knew what I was getting myself Into. Im also fine with it!

    Everything is going okay, he calls and texts me everyday. We see eachother every week. Its just that evey now and than I get a phonecall from him. Saying that hes going to visit them and will be turning off his phone. Afterwards I feel so stupid for going along with it. I feel that i dont have the patience to watch things turn around. So I'm wondering if I should say something about it, ignore him all together and/or let the universe do its work?

    Any advice is welcome!

     

    2/01/2017 3:28 pm  #2

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    Re: should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    I would definitely put the intention of whatever outcome you want to the universe. Don't stress about it though, that could turn this into a situation you don't want.

    "Believe in what you feel inside, and give your dreams the wings to fly
    You have everything you need, if you just believe" -     Believe, Josh Groban
    its hard to have a better tomorrow if you're still thinking about yesterday
     
     

    2/01/2017 3:38 pm  #3

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    Re: should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    So when his phone is on again, Your advice is to just act normal? I cant help to feel like im being walked over. But maybe thats something I need to work on..

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    2/01/2017 3:45 pm  #4

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    Re: should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    No. My advice is to put out an intention (desire) to the universe of however you want this to work itself out. Meaning, if you want him to not walk all over you, adore you, and be open and honest, set that as a desire. Visualize, script.. whatever makes you feel good.

    I can't tell you what to do or not do in the situation.. that is up to you. But you can use LOA to rectify how he treats you.

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    You have everything you need, if you just believe" -     Believe, Josh Groban
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    2/01/2017 3:53 pm  #5

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    Re: should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    Blue wrote:

    He has a girlfriend as in..he's cheating on her with you? Or is he separated and she's just the mother of his child?

     
    He is seperated and she's  the mother of his child. So she's his ex-girlfriend. Is what he's saying and I choose to believe..

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    2/01/2017 4:00 pm  #6

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    Re: should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    big_blue wrote:

    No. My advice is to put out an intention (desire) to the universe of however you want this to work itself out. Meaning, if you want him to not walk all over you, adore you, and be open and honest, set that as a desire. Visualize, script.. whatever makes you feel good.

    I can't tell you what to do or not do in the situation.. that is up to you. But you can use LOA to rectify how he treats you.

     
    Thanks! Thats what I am trying to do.. Its just that I'm afraid at times that my behavior (such as ignoring him or putting him in his place), is conflicting with the LOA. As I am a believer that when you truly accept whatever situation youre in, the universe will work out the intention you put out there. And by ignoring him or confronting him I feel like not accepting my situation and trying to force things to be something else, whilst that not my job to do.

    Haha, maybe I just gave myself the answer I was looking for...

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    2/01/2017 4:06 pm  #7

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    Re: should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    Thanks you so much for your advice! I really appreciate it and I will try the RS/PW on him. How is it working out for you?

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    2/01/2017 4:09 pm  #8

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    Re: should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    The advice from Blue above is good. You need to perhaps visualise him detaching from her and simply being in contact to see the child and no more than that. 

    Also I do believe that people treat us how we allow them to, so you are (in my opinion anyway) right to set boundaries, or expectations as to what is acceptable. I don't believe that contradicts law of attraction. I also don't think it is putting him in his place or ignoring him as you say, it's simply healthy, self-respectful behaviour, which is what you deserve.  If he is telling the truth, I can understand him not wanting to antagonise the ex - I had a similar situation with an ex who had previously been married and his ex-wife said she didn't want HER (ie me) around her two children.  It's the behaviour when he is with you that should tell you what is the reality and I would focus on that if I were you.

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    2/01/2017 4:16 pm  #9

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    Re: should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    Hi..I wouldn't worry about it. As you told me, just focus on what you want. I really appreciated your advice and for pointing out what I was doing wrong. You are a smart girl and I know you will get what you want

     

    2/01/2017 7:40 pm  #10

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    Re: should I set bounderies or let the universe handle it?

    Thank you guys so much for the advice and encouragement! Def going to follow up on it.

    Blue, thanks for sharing your story❤️

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