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Hello everyone
I really need your advice and help. My guy and I are currently not in contact and he blocked my number so there is no form of communication since the summer of 2015.I was extremely upset and tried to get in touch but nothing worked out. I started focusing on other aspects of my life and tried moving on. However in summer 2016, I saw that a random girl had entered his life. I wasn’t happy but I thought I couldn’t do much and did wonder if anything serious was going on with that girl. I think throughout the summer, I randomly stalked that girl’s profile and it seemed as if things were over between them. Me being stupid, still had a lurking feeling that she would try coming back in his life because of all the sad posts she was putting up. Lo and behold, she reentered his life in December 2016, when my friend saw them together in Dallas. Since, then she has been in his life and they are travelling together and all of this makes me sick to the stomach.
I know I was incredibly stupid and didn’t trust the process but I really want to reverse this and want him back in my life.
I don’t know what to do especially since I wonder if I can make a difference in his life when he is with someone. else.Then I think I can do something but I get discouraged. I’m extremely sorry for venting and I hope you’re not mad at me for being so dumb when it comes to using loa but I'm hopeful that I will get excellent advice from everyone.
Thanks
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Its seems that you are way too focussed on the other girl, while you should focus on what you want! Im guessing that YOU would rather be with him, instead of HER being with him!
When you think or visualize about him, leave the other girl out of it. Pretend that she doesnt exist or theyve broken up and visualize about you and him only. Affirm to yourself that youre the only one he wants and REALLY believe it!! The more you repeat this, the more you will start to believe it. No action needs to be taken, unless its inspired action. Unless something inspires you to do something. Those kind of actions are often type of actions you dont need to think about.
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X-tina001 wrote:
Its seems that you are way too focussed on the other girl, while you should focus on what you want! Im guessing that YOU would rather be with him, instead of HER being with him!
When you think or visualize about him, leave the other girl out of it. Pretend that she doesnt exist or theyve broken up and visualize about you and him only. Affirm to yourself that youre the only one he wants and REALLY believe it!! The more you repeat this, the more you will start to believe it. No action needs to be taken, unless its inspired action. Unless something inspires you to do something. Those kind of actions are often type of actions you dont need to think about.
Hi Tina..Thank you for getting back to me. I really appreciate your advice and you're absolutely correct when you said that I'm way too focused on the other girl. After seeing a picture of the two of them, I told myself that this is what I get for being so focused on her. It's something that I did not want to see but it's fine. I have learned my lesson the hard way, and I'm only going to think about him and I being together.
I can definitely say that I have never truly believed that this would work for me hence all the negative thoughts and the unsuccessful relationship. I tried to make things happen by messaging him before but he never replied and hence blocked me. So, I won't take any action unless I'm inspired. Lol I don't think I have been ever inspired to do anything regarding this relationship.
Thank you for your advice. I will definitely follow it and ignore what I'm currently seeing
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Good luck! I have absolute faith youll get whatever you desire!