Debbie wrote:

Dan2015 wrote:

I feel like I'm doing great, my love has continued to initiate contact the next day. Even ehen she falls asleep or gets busy. So my question is. To myself. Should I say "when we get back together". Or in my head should I already say we are back together

In your head you should say you are back together. But don't mention it to her yet! Lol. Don't go too fast with her or declare undying love yet, but just use your intuition and enjoy the process. Because it looks like you are already heading straight back in the direction of being a couple again. :-)
 

So when I think about her, just say we are back together?  And haha yeah, for now we are just talking about random stuff.     She's even opening up to me about things in her life   And also her sex life.  Like the guy she was talking to used her.      I honestly don't see why she'd tell me any of this unless if she was planning on dating me

I have a question for you guys.    I know I'm not gonna mess it up.  My heart and brain. Knows I'm going to make things better and Keep making progress.     But what type of things should I talk about with her?   Just regular things like I would any other friend?  Should it be like I'm just getting to know her again?        Should I flirt at all?          I feel in my gut. That I'll have her by the new year.   In my mind I already do

Sam wrote:

Just take it day by day and be grateful for every message you get from her, regardless of what it says. The fact that she's talking to you just shows how much progress you've already made. Keep going with it! When you're feeling impatient maybe try to find something to do that will distract you until the impatience fades!

Good idea. I could always close my eyes and get into my own world