1 of 1- Meg2222
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I need some clarity..
Sorry guys I don't mean to sound desperate. Just need some clarity or your opinions. Unfortunately my brain doesn't work properly apparently..
So since A ended things. He has avoided social media, he used to be on it all the time. He doesn't look at anything of mine (some apps show you who's seen it), he hasn't contacted me at all not even to get his stuff, it's like he never cared at all. He has cut me off completely when we used to speak every day..
I am really trying to be patient but I can't seem to knock this attitude that he doesn't care about me and never did. I know I have a lot going on at home but this seems more difficult to shake. He treated me so damn good and was really into me. Surely you can't just switch that off?
Even when it happened it was like he wasn't bothered? I am just so confused and I do want to be with him but my negative thoughts are going crazy right now 😕 Help!
- jensherratt
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Re: I need some clarity..
I was in that situation and was told that the reason he did it was because he couldn't stop thinking about me.
He originally left because he was scared of losing me, he was in a dark place and although he wanted a relationship, he realised he really likes me so at the time he let me go because he was scared he was going to scare me off and that's why he got into his rebound. He knew it was a rebound. He never loved her and he wasn't bothered about using her.
He said he thought About me every day and after all my RS sessions, he has come back.
So don't worry and stop focusing on social media. It doesn't matter.
You will get him back
We recieve exactly what we expect to recieve. - John Holland.
- Meg2222
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Re: I need some clarity..
Thanks guys,
No it wasn't an ugly break up it was actually fine, I got mad but just left him to it. I don't know if he is already dating. Well I am worried I was the rebound. Even though he says I wasn't and that his feelings were real for me.
I really hope that is true and that he does care about me. He said he isn't ready to commit but the way he was with me said otherwise, I would like to believe that he does love me and care about me but the way he is acting right now shows otherwise, I need to ignore all this.
Is there anything I can do to stop the negative thoughts and beliefs before they ruin everything? Being tired doesn't help but that is just my life a the moment which I just need to accept.
I really miss him and talking to him. 
x
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