It's not popular around here, but I do prefer the "this or something better" approach (even though it's not always easy). I wouldn't call it settling because you're opening up to possibilities that are greater than what you think is the answer. And sometimes that can be challenging if we haven't seen what those possibilities are. Basically it's about trusting in abundance, taking a step back and recognizing a bigger picture. Sometimes by holding onto something too tightly, we hurt ourselves.

jensherratt wrote:

The people who post that are usually having doubts. You DO get whatever you want because the universe wants you to have your desires, you're desires want you just as much as you want them. The universe doesn't give you something that is considered better for you. You get whatever it is you ask for whether it's good or not. You know what you want. You know deep down when something or someone is right for you and you WILL get what you want.

Don't have ANY doubts.

 
Thx Jen.
Needed soooo much to hear that
I kinda feel I know what is best for me. At thats my girl, as far as I'm concerned