Hello everybody, so it has been a long time since I posted something hah. I got some update of what happened after my first post. I posted it below so that you can read it if you like.
"Hello everyone, I am new here in this forum and I hope everyone is doing fine.
I am going to briefly describe my situation. I broke up with my girlfriend two months ago and after breaking up, I did the no contact thing; I thought that she would contact me first and after 2 weeks and seeing that she did not contact me; I contacted her. and well after this two months I have not seen any sign that she is attracted to me. So recently, I discovered Veronica and after watching several videos of her explaining how to use LOA, I understood what to do to attract my ex back.
But there is something that concerns me and it is about what Veronica talked and explained about the "take action" thing. She said that "taking action" does not mean contacting your ex and I already contacted her before I get to know Veronica. so my question is, should I cancel all contact with her or should I keep the contact and also doing my visualizations, scripting and RS? Thank you for taking the time to read my little story

A week ago I asked her out to drink something on saturday or sunday and she said that she was not avaiable in those days and she said that maybe the next week; So, I told her to tell to go out when she is available and she said that she will. and since that day we have not texted to each other. I am waiting for her response. another thing is that she lives far away from where I live but right now she is in the same city as I am so I do not know if I should text her again and ask her to go out or should I use the LOA so that she asks me first to go out. and thanks for the help and  for taking the time to read my posts"

well after wating her reply which didnt happen, I kept no contact since she was supposed to tell me if she could or not go out with me, anyway, I passed my days without worrying about that. after all, I am happy with myself and I no longer feel sadness or unhappiness because of not having a relationship with my ex girlfriend. However, I do feel anxiety or get anxious whenever I open my whatsapp to see whether she has texted me or not. I don't know if this anxiety is a form of resistance that is avoiding me to attrack my ex back. I am happy and I don't feel sadness anymore, however, I always get anxious or nervous whether she has texted me or not and I would like to know If there that means that I didnt LET HER GO. I have read that if we are in a state of LET GO then thats when we start to receive what we asked for.

The thing is that after almost 3 months of no contact and waiting my ex to reply me if she could go out with me, days ago she finally contacted me on facebook saying "hello how are you? I lost all my contacts so text me on whatsapp if you want of course :v" that moment my heart started to beat quickly because she finally reached me out and I felt so happy and well at the same time I thought why did she say if I want? as if I were mad at her or something, maybe she thinks that or who knows, anyway, I texted her and she added me on her whatsapp and we started to talk again but I feel that she isnt attracted to me yet because of how she texts me, I feel like I always have to put effort in the conversation and that I need to me the one who initiate the converstation. But at least, I attracted her reaching me out first. the curious thing is that days before she reached me out to ask me to chat her, I accidentally saw a post on facebook of her, she posted a photo and the following description "Pretending that I don't care but it is killing me inside" I don't know why but I think that that post is for me. what you recommend me to do with the chat thing? I always feel that I am the one initiating and putting effort. I love her and before we broke up she told me this "I dont think that I will ever live such experience I lived with you again with any other men"
thanks for taking the time to read this post and sorry for the bad writting since english is not my mother language.

 

Last edited by KawaiiMan (1/08/2017 6:15 pm)