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I notice when you're grateful for what you have, manifesting gets easier
Too often we forget what we do have Even the basic things(not everyone has)
Be grateful you have water
Be grateful you have food
Be grateful you have family
Be grateful you have health
Be grateful you have a place to live
Be grateful for everything you have, no matter how small or big
Sometimes, when I look at these forums or even remember the stuff I use to complain about especially with my ex I realize how minor most of this stuff is
A lot of us complain about not getting texts. But there's people in the world who don't even know where their next meal is going to come from
Of course everyone's good and bad experiences are gonna be different, so it's hard to compare. But try to be grateful for what you DO have, there's someone in the world who'd do anything to be in your position
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I'm not in any way trying to get an ex back, and it puts things in perspective for me. I often think - is getting an ex back all people have to worry about? I really don't understand it. I was like that once, thought I couldn't live without someone - I never got him back - and to be honest, I wish somebody who didn't get in touch with me was all I had to worry about :D
I know this sounds flippant, and I don't want to be dismissive of anyone's desires, but it is all a matter of perspective. I'd far rather have personal security and no ex/partner than anything else.
You all really are fine without the ex!
It's you that matters, it's you that is the bottom line.
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
I'm not in any way trying to get an ex back, and it puts things in perspective for me. I often think - is getting an ex back all people have to worry about? I really don't understand it. I was like that once, thought I couldn't live without someone - I never got him back - and to be honest, I wish somebody who didn't get in touch with me was all I had to worry about :D
I know this sounds flippant, and I don't want to be dismissive of anyone's desires, but it is all a matter of perspective. I'd far rather have personal security and no ex/partner than anything else.
You all really are fine without the ex!
It's you that matters, it's you that is the bottom line.
I don't blame people for wanting their ex. Especially if they feel it's their soulmate. But they should also be grateful for the things they already have
I was really wanting an ex back this time last year I still semi want her back, but I honestly don't care anymore. I rather have my life together
Plus, I know I can get other women. And that other women out there might be the same as my ex if not better
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Dan2015 wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
I'm not in any way trying to get an ex back, and it puts things in perspective for me. I often think - is getting an ex back all people have to worry about? I really don't understand it. I was like that once, thought I couldn't live without someone - I never got him back - and to be honest, I wish somebody who didn't get in touch with me was all I had to worry about :D
I know this sounds flippant, and I don't want to be dismissive of anyone's desires, but it is all a matter of perspective. I'd far rather have personal security and no ex/partner than anything else.
You all really are fine without the ex!
It's you that matters, it's you that is the bottom line.I don't blame people for wanting their ex. Especially if they feel it's their soulmate. But they should also be grateful for the things they already have
I was really wanting an ex back this time last year I still semi want her back, but I honestly don't care anymore. I rather have my life together
Plus, I know I can get other women. And that other women out there might be the same as my ex if not better
Oh I am not "blaming" anyone. Been there myself.
I just think that priorities get muddled sometimes and people focus on the wrong stuff.
I have a friend who is always unhappy and grumbling about her unhappiness. However, she owns her own property mortgage-free (admittedly shared with the partner) and has a secure job that she absolutely loves.
I would kill to be in her position - she has the two things I want most!
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I highly recommend reading rhonda byrnes book "the power"
Ts all about the power of gratitude.