Hello everyone  hope your day is going well. I'm here about a week and love the great advice and positivity flowing here.
Anyway I'd love some feedback or views on my subject.

I'm here purely to to be reunited with my soulmate like most of you. . I was back in April we broke up and I won't go into the details but I was left shattered  heart broken angry etc . anyway I was so down and negetive but amazingly iv attracted a new woman into my life.. .

She is so into me in every way and couldn't be nicer . she's very attractive , independent, strong  and POSITIVE!!.

Now iv explained to her one many occasions that I'm not ready for a relationship but we have being dating and she constantly reminds me that she is sure whatever happens we will be friends for life.

Of course there is still only one woman   my heart belongs too and I know our reunion is getting closer and closer.

Am I been selfish here people ?
And why when I was obviously sending out such negetive vibrations did the universe bring this woman onto my life?