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1 - Dan2015
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Weird
I know you're not suppose to contact, I just had a random gut feeling to contact her today and she replied instantly. And actually apologized for being MIA lately.. She hasn't even mentioned the other guy(I'm not sure if there's still another guy or not but I'm not worried). But we talked. And she opened up to me so much. About something her family is going through and other things.
She hasn't opened up to me like this since our breakup, so maybe my vibes are high? Is this some type of sign. That she's gaining trust for me again and willing to open up?
Either way, I'm going back to no contact tomorrow and really gonna try RS and visualize. I feel if I accomplish these things. I'll have her back so soon
- Dan2015
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And she said the guy she was talking to. Randomly stopped talking to her about a week ago. And that other guys just view her as a hookup and she doesn't want that
I know I shouldn't contact her(and won't after today). But it feels like this made me more confident. I KNOW I'll get her back
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Thread Starter- Dan2015
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Sam wrote:
I think if you messaged her and she responded well means your vibe was high, so you should just go back to no contact and keep focusing on keeping your vibe high. Then next time she'll probably be the one to contact you!
Exactly what I'm going to do, I just know it's going to happen
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Thread Starter- barbidoll
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Re: Weird
Wonderful a positive conversation Keep up the high vibrational feelings
- Dan2015
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Wonderful a positive conversation Keep up the high vibrational feelings
Seems like good things are happening, she fell asleep last night and then when she woke up she texted back(she hasn't done this in awhile. Usually I would be on delivered for weeks)
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Thread Starter- Debbie
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Re: Weird
I think that in this case you acted on your intuition (which is good). You felt inspired to do it and you were in such a positive place emotionally that it worked for you.
And I think you're really doing the right thing now in going straight back to your original plan.
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She keeps replying. Which is cool. Like she will reply. Then I'll reply and she'll answer it when she can. The first moment she doesn't reply again. Is when I go no contact again.
I'm so excited. Cause I honestly see things happening soon. I'm just trying not to get cocky or anything. And then losing progress. So I'm not bringing up anything relationship related
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Thread Starter- Cherished
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Re: Weird
Keep it simple and don't initiate.. And no, there's no need to be cocky at all. Just love her unconditionally until she comes around. No need to bring up the relationship. She will.
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
- Dan2015
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Keep it simple and don't initiate.. And no, there's no need to be cocky at all. Just love her unconditionally until she comes around. No need to bring up the relationship. She will.
Yep, the only reason I initiated yesterday was cause I had a strong gut feeling about it. And the convo has been really good. But like I said the before. The moment when/if she stops replying. That's when I go no contact again
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Thread Starter- Debbie
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She keeps replying. Which is cool. Like she will reply. Then I'll reply and she'll answer it when she can. The first moment she doesn't reply again. Is when I go no contact again.
I'm so excited. Cause I honestly see things happening soon. I'm just trying not to get cocky or anything. And then losing progress. So I'm not bringing up anything relationship related
Yes that sounds fine as far as I can tell. Try not to worry about losing progress. Try not to worry at all about anything. Tell yourself each time that this is all going to be fine. Just enjoy the communication with each other. :-)
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