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Hi everyone,
I am new to this. I used to read your post but this is my first post.I need help in figuring out my situation. Any support would be great.
I have been holding on for too long now. I feel that I should have let go when the feelings n breakup was fresh. But my momentum cause me to keep doing what I do. Its been too long that even if try to let go I feel I am left with numb feelings towards him. I just feel numb and empty. I love when I have loving feelings for him and I always want to have those feeling but It upsets me that if my holding on kill my feelings. Things happened long time before n I don't share it with anyone so I feels like they did not happen at all, only me thinking about these stuffs.
I would love to share my story sometime soon but want to know if this kind of feeling happen?
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Feelings are your guidance telling you how well you are doing. When you want to experience loving feelings for him, just focus on the stuff you like about him.
Alice wrote:
Things happened long time before n I don't share it with anyone so I feels like they did not happen at all, only me thinking about these stuffs.
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It doesn't matter, if you didn't talk about it. As long as you think about it, it did happen and you recreate it with every thought.
Alice wrote:
I would love to share my story sometime soon but want to know if this kind of feeling happen?
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Why would anyone who knows about LoA want to do that?
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Thank you sanshi,
I am all over the place rt now and lack focus.
I just wanted to share my story so that you guys would know the situation better not because I don't know about loa .
Thanks alot though i will try to remember your advice
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Alice wrote:
I just wanted to share my story so that you guys would know the situation better not because I don't know about loa .
And that would serve which purpose except creating more of what you don't want and keeping the negative momentum going?
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Sanshi wrote:
Alice wrote:
I just wanted to share my story so that you guys would know the situation better not because I don't know about loa .
And that would serve which purpose except creating more of what you don't want and keeping the negative momentum going?
That is true sanshi. Thank you for letting me know this.
I have lost the feeling of connection with him so I am not being able to let go or act as if. Some part of me holds on to things.
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