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My special opinion. Is it bad?
Im afraid that when I will focus just on me and I will do things which I like and other things which people do when they break up etc so he will think that "OK she is happy without me she forget on me so I dont will text her and try be with her again, when she is happy without ME so I probably dont miss her "..I dont know why I have this opinion ..maybe because my past ex (no this who I want back now ) tell me that when he was break up with some girl so he never try attract her back when she try to show him that she is happy without him. .I know that it matter on my vibrations etc but what if this my current ex think this too? I want stop post n the facebook sad posts too but sometimes I post something sad but I hope that when this see his friend so he will.tell him that I still miss me.... when I will show that I am happy without him and that I live my life so what if think that I dont need him? Is my opinion stupid?
And I want dont stalking his fb too but Im afraid that when I really focus on me and I stalk his fb after along time so that I will see something what hurt me.. how I get rid of this fear? I still afraid for something.. I dont know how stop all fear.. I am happu some time but my mind still tell me that it may become something bad.. .
Last edited by Laura1234 (12/04/2016 9:11 am)
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Re: My special opinion. Is it bad?
You're trying to change something in your current reality. Don't do this. Let this current reality where he is not with you alone. Doing things to try to change it -- posting sad posts, worrying about seeming too happy, etc is only causing you to focus on it, which is keeping you in it. Let go of this reality and make yourself happy. You're allowed to be happy! And getting happy IS going to help in getting him back -- remaining sad for him is only going to keep him away. You need to be happy and live in your desired reality. Would you be sad if you were in a relationship with him right now? If not, then why are you worrying about whether you should be sad or happy?
Whatever is posted on his social media doesn't matter. Your reality will completely change when you stay aligned with what you want anyway.
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Re: My special opinion. Is it bad?
Great advice
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Re: My special opinion. Is it bad?
sunny wrote:
You're trying to change something in your current reality. Don't do this. Let this current reality where he is not with you alone. Doing things to try to change it -- posting sad posts, worrying about seeming too happy, etc is only causing you to focus on it, which is keeping you in it. Let go of this reality and make yourself happy. You're allowed to be happy! And getting happy IS going to help in getting him back -- remaining sad for him is only going to keep him away. You need to be happy and live in your desired reality. Would you be sad if you were in a relationship with him right now? If not, then why are you worrying about whether you should be sad or happy?
Whatever is posted on his social media doesn't matter. Your reality will completely change when you stay aligned with what you want anyway.
good advice. I also want to add that you HAVE to focus on yourself.
otherwise, you will be stuck in your current reality because you give it so much attention.
She believed she could, so she did.
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