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Hi forum. I need advice on staying positive on this journey when everything around says it's not going to happen.
When even the person who you are trying to attract says : I don't want you , leave me alone , ignores you completely. Or is in a new relationship, moves across town .
What do you do to shift your focus , get happy , remain at task ?
Please help . This question is for me , but for others facing a similar situation. Thank you in advance
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You get committed to what you really want. You live from a different reality, the one where you two are together. You visualize, affirm, and do things that make you feel good about yourself and good about your relationship. I think most exes say they don't want to talk to you, mine did. And then he called. I focused on myself, lived my own like and trusted, had faith and deep knew he was coming back to our new relationship.Β
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Alycat1110 wrote:
You get committed to what you really want. You live from a different reality, the one where you two are together. You visualize, affirm, and do things that make you feel good about yourself and good about your relationship. I think most exes say they don't want to talk to you, mine did. And then he called. I focused on myself, lived my own like and trusted, had faith and deep knew he was coming back to our new relationship.Β
Awesome story . Not only did you give me hope . You also gave me needed advice to stop feeling helpless but to empower myself to see it as already done . Thank you
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IF you focus too much on what they say you will forever be in a revolving door of your life that doesn't include him. Hope is a great feeling, it is a stepping stone for what is to come and the basis of actually asking the Universe for what you desire. You have so much power so once you understand that and know that trust that you are a deliberate creator and that the Universe has your back nothing not even a feeling can stop you.Β
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Alycat1110 wrote:
IF you focus too much on what they say you will forever be in a revolving door of your life that doesn't include him. Hope is a great feeling, it is a stepping stone for what is to come and the basis of actually asking the Universe for what you desire. You have so much power so once you understand that and know that trust that you are a deliberate creator and that the Universe has your back nothing not even a feeling can stop you.Β
That's POWERFUL... You are right . I AM focusing a lot on his " leave me alone " . So much that I'm fearful every conversation will include those words
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