I see LoA work perfectly here. What you think and what is manifest in your world are a perfect match, right? I know that sounds strange, because you think there is a solid reality and you look at this solid reality. You believe that without having any proof of it. I claim that this reality stays that solid, because you observe it and think about it. It's not provable also. So, when you can't prove both world views, why not choose the one you like more?

If you want to use LoA to your advantage, you can't longer ponder what is.

sara315 wrote:

Thank you Happymo and Sanshi
The thing is, my love is fading, I dont think about him as much and Im not in pain all the time. I guess time heals right. But I do still want him, I think its true love (sorry for being so corny). SO in my head , I can go to my happy place of being together but I always want more, especially the physical stuff like sitting together talking, holding hands, spending time together. I think thats when I spiral. Thats the part I cant get over. So I send out lack vibration and then he is not here.
And you are right, I dont fully believe in LOA yet. But Im working on it. I do want to believe in the reality in my head but it is so one dimensional without physical sense at all. How do you guys get through it?
 

Hey, your story sounds a little like mine, long distance and the dreaded there is no future...so I am here to give some faith. My love said the same thing and broke up with me in the douchiest way possible in Febuary and then almost two months later came back and he was the one who asked to get back together just as I was like I don't know if I want this guy back. We are again (in this reality) seperated but my manifestation is very close I feel it. Don't let what they say affect you because you manifested it. Which you know.

As for your love fading, your desire never does but what does change is the pressure that you put on him to be responsible for your happiness is now gone. Youre detached from your outcome. You have forgiven and now are ready to receive. How cool! And as always if visualization doesn't feel good then don't do it because if at all times you feel great and subconsciously you know you are manifesting your great relationship then maybe don't visualize. So to change this I just allow myself to use the 17 second technique that Abe teaches and then maybe I'll go to sleep knowing that I trust and have 100% faith in the Universe to deliver this. Plus I also wake up in a great mood aswell. 

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Thanks guys!
Im going through a rough couple of days again. Basically just tired of focusing and waiting and wanting something so much and not getting it. I know Im not supposed to say it but when you are alone you cant help but feeling something is missing and that is my love.
The kicker is, my life is going so well. I have the perfect job for me, great friends, financially im doing really well and im doing all kinds of activities that I love. But its like a void, and its so tiring to live in the moment knowing im enjoying all this and I want to tell him but I cant. I tried writing him and not sending it and it just backfired.
Does anyone feel this way? Im starting to hate how I have to be positive! I know that sounds strange but Im very close to just accepting that I cannot create my reality....Sorry for being a downer. But I usually get things when I think I wont get them or I dont want them and thats is opposite from what Veronica is saying. Like I would say I dont even want this or I dont care about it and it will come my way. I know its similar to letting go but if you have a desire, you cant really let go. Even if you feel that the universe is doing it and you just need to vibrate positively and it will come. But the truth is Im tired of waiting becasue I know the universe will bring him back but when? So if you have some similar down thoughts, how did you pick yourself up or continue? I so want to believe I can create my reality because I don't like where I am and I want to control and change the situation.

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So when you try and control how you feel or the length of time that it takes your manifestation to manifest you are building up resistance. Also just feel your feelings. Bad feelings prolong themselves because people feel like you have to feel good all of the time and that is simply not true. Like Chemist said listen to some upbeat or good feeling songs. Remember when you add feelings to your thoughts that's when they manifest. That is the true way of getting out of the way for your manifestation. So what? You felt crappy for one week? Do some yoga, meditate and just let it go. It will happen. Also when you feel like you need to control you are not trusting the universe. So trust it. You know it will happen but there are just some things you cannot control.