Been there buddy. Just let it out. Don't try to fight it otherwise the feelings will persist. Just let it out and keep telling yourself everything will be okay. Everything is going to work out and you deserve what you desire.

Once you're feeling better my advice is to treat the situation with neutrality. Accept that the situation exists. Don't ignore it or resist it. Own the reality and then imagine the reality you want to be in. Put yourself in that reality and think about how that would feel. Then just become the person that is in that reality.

InLakEsch wrote:

Been there buddy. Just let it out. Don't try to fight it otherwise the feelings will persist. Just let it out and keep telling yourself everything will be okay. Everything is going to work out and you deserve what you desire.

Once you're feeling better my advice is to treat the situation with neutrality. Accept that the situation exists. Don't ignore it or resist it. Own the reality and then imagine the reality you want to be in. Put yourself in that reality and think about how that would feel. Then just become the person that is in that reality.

How did you do it? how did you let it out? because I'm trying but it's hard..... I don't like to think more about that but suddenly appears in my mind and makes me feel very sad.

Thank you for your advice, right now, I stop with stalking her social media pages, that's over for me, I will focus on myself, I know that all I visualice it's somewhere in the vortex like Abraam says.

So, you think that right now I have to stop visualizing?

Kavik wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Why did it happen? Because you expected it on some level, you were afraid of it.

But you know that there is no point in looking at reality. What you see now has NOTHING to do with what you want to create. So why looking at it?

Yes, I admit it, I was scared about the posibility of she being with someone else, but I worked to neutralize that, that's why I don't understand why this happens, you can't neutralize your fears? 

Yes, you're right, I stop stalking her, I stop with this current situation, right now I like to work in myself and I have faith in all the work I had been doing during all this time, but it hurts, right now, what I saw hurt me a lot 

I'm trying to stop thinking about that but suddenly this situation appears in my mind and makes me feel bad

Of course you can cancel out negative energy, but you have to put in an equal amount of energy. And I think it wasn't only your conscious fears, but also your unconscious expectations like "a beautiful girl finds a new guy quickly" or stuff like that. In the end, it doesn't really matter, because it already happened.

Do you know what being hurt means? It's a really really big dissonance between your thoughts and the thoughts of your Inner Being that already lives the reality you want to live. No other person can hurt you, only your own thoughts can and it's a signal for you to change your focus, because the truth of your Inner Being is a different one.

Kavik wrote:

InLakEsch wrote:

Been there buddy. Just let it out. Don't try to fight it otherwise the feelings will persist. Just let it out and keep telling yourself everything will be okay. Everything is going to work out and you deserve what you desire.

Once you're feeling better my advice is to treat the situation with neutrality. Accept that the situation exists. Don't ignore it or resist it. Own the reality and then imagine the reality you want to be in. Put yourself in that reality and think about how that would feel. Then just become the person that is in that reality.

How did you do it? how did you let it out? because I'm trying but it's hard..... I don't like to think more about that but suddenly appears in my mind and makes me feel very sad.

Thank you for your advice, right now, I stop with stalking her social media pages, that's over for me, I will focus on myself, I know that all I visualice it's somewhere in the vortex like Abraam says.

So, you think that right now I have to stop visualizing?

De activate social media. Take a break from it. I went off social media for two weeks and when I reactivated it I hardly ever use it. I used to just scroll through the news feed whenever I was bored. Now I just find something else to do. Play guitar. Go work out. Hang out with friends. There's so much to do outside social media.

Sanshi is right about the hurt part. It's just the dissonance. In time you'll be able to use the mis alignment to your advantage once you learn more about loa.

Also if you keep at it you'll become so much more powerful in your ability to be in control of how you feel and how you think. I was in a car accident today. No one hurt. I don't have a car right now though. I didn't let that interfere with my vibe at all. I was confused at why it happened but I was able to say to myself. I don't know what positive situation is going to come of this all I know is that this is somehow positive. The version of me that didn't practice loa would probably be in shambles right now. As a matter of fact he is lol because that is a reality. I'm just choosing not to experience that one.

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