Cherished wrote:

I don't see it as confusing whatsoever? What are u all confused about? The thoughts you think turn into beliefs you hold. And your beliefs vibrate out into the universe and create your future. If your vibration is clear and high and you are feeling happy each day, what you want will manifest. If you're miserable and needy and despairing, then you clearly don't believe you can attract whatever you want. So you have 2 options. Either work on your limiting beliefs by challenging them and overriding them, or simply by living in the moment with a vibe of contentment and eagerness about a new and brighter future unfolding. It makes perfect sense, where are you all tripping up?

I don't find it confusing at all. So I don't get why people are tripping.

Hopeful one wrote:

ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:

Cherished wrote:

I don't see it as confusing whatsoever? What are u all confused about? The thoughts you think turn into beliefs you hold. And your beliefs vibrate out into the universe and create your future. If your vibration is clear and high and you are feeling happy each day, what you want will manifest. If you're miserable and needy and despairing, then you clearly don't believe you can attract whatever you want. So you have 2 options. Either work on your limiting beliefs by challenging them and overriding them, or simply by living in the moment with a vibe of contentment and eagerness about a new and brighter future unfolding. It makes perfect sense, where are you all tripping up?

I don't find it confusing at all. So I don't get why people are tripping.

 
If you are getting conflicting information from several different people, and new at this, a person might could get confused because they don't know what direction to take. But who knows, maybe us newbies are stupid.

It can be difficult to understand if you're new to practising it deliberately but all the different LOA teachers pretty much say the same things but worded differently. It's all about finding one you can relate to and stick with their teachings, that's how it's going for me right now anyway. 

Last edited by Staceylouuu91x (12/11/2016 7:00 pm)

It's so interesting. This post has more reads than some of Cherished's posts and that within a few days, and people are still pushing it to the top. I wonder why? Why not just letting it die by withdrawing all attention?

I know it'll be counter-productive, as I'm bumping it to say this, but yeah, why don't we let this topic die? It's not helpful for newcomers, nor "old-comers".

I understand what OP was trying to say, but anything is possible, and I'd much rather know my ex is coming back, than move on ;)

She is coming back. And everyone, as are your exes

Well, I think the people here who are nuanced in LOA understand that yes, while everything is possible, the fruit of getting it is to let it go. Which means to detach. So the only way you can get what you want is to feel it, sense it, know it, then allow it to flow through you and out into the universe.

But you know, I think that while attracting a specific person is possible, I just wanted to say that it's really best not done until after you have gotten over the person. Like to just let the relationship in your head die, do the things that allow you to move on, and then when you're in an 'over it' place, that's the place where the chances of the ex returning is. Like in my, and many many other's , life experiences, exs come back in earnest when you're over them. You don't have to be with someone else, you just have to be at the point where if they're name popped up in your facebook messages,you wouldn't have a heart attack. They need to be another face in the crowd pretty much. Then the attracting process has the greatest liklihood of working because when you're not having heart attacks, you can actually just be normal? Like you can be how you are when you're just hanging out with friends and that's actually, ironically, when you're at your most attractive because attractive is pretty much the same as to be relaxed and happy. So when you're laughing over a bottle of wine with your mates, you're actually really attractive. When you're freaking out and doing weird little laughs and nervously trying to seduce or be cute, you're not as attractive. 

So when you reach the point where you can actually imagine sitting down with your person over a beer and just letting your hair down and joking about the latest star wars and other things, that is when they will be able to see you in your true element and if they fell for you before, it is quite likely they will fall for you again! So the idea that they have to 'want' you shouldn't be so scary! haha. The only reason that might sound scary is because you definitely don't believe right now that they would want you and you care too much about that.

You need to not care. You need to literally be able to be around them and not care if they think you're sexy or sweet. You need to be able to approach them the way you might approach and old friend and casually make light conversation with natural smiles and natural words. You need to just be sure of yourself as a likeable character in general. 

So it's like, no one will date you just because you want them to, but they will date you if they want to. You want them to want you...so in order to do that, you have to stop wanting them so much haha weird! Not like completely, that would be total friendzone (and alluring though, for sure, but you'd be over them..which would be good!) And that's the thing, if you're so afraid of the idea of getting over them that's foolish, because if you truly loved them, the truth is you would never fully get over them. Because people never fully get over true loves. They can love others, but they will not entirely stop loving someone they once loved. So if you can stop loving someone completely and not care less if they live or die, then you've just proven you never really loved them enough in the first place!

So getting over someone is the greatest thing to do. If you get fully over them- boom- you're happy and free and you learned you never cared for them as much as you thought. If you get over the heart attacks and the crazy obsession but still have a warmth in your heart for them- then you are at the place to begin the manifesting.