Just be happy.

If you're exhausted from visualizing, RS, etc., then stop doing it. Those techniques don't bring the person back anyway, its the feeling/emotions that is conveyed when doing those. So, if you don't want to do them anymore, don't.

Last edited by big_blue (11/28/2016 10:36 am)

I know I do it wrong.
I totally believe in LOA and had success in many other things.

But LoA and attracting specific persons is a big mystery to me.
If I let go of all resistance, not giving up but caring less whether he texts or not and uf I really make myself a priority.also known as "moving on". And I do not visualise us and start to think less about him.
Will it cancel my manifestation?

happygirl97 wrote:

I know I do it wrong.
I totally believe in LOA and had success in many other things.

But LoA and attracting specific persons is a big mystery to me.
If I let go of all resistance, not giving up but caring less whether he texts or not and uf I really make myself a priority.also known as "moving on". And I do not visualise us and start to think less about him.
Will it cancel my manifestation?

What I found out lately is that attracting a specific person is damn easy and really not in any way harder than attracting a cup of coffee, at least in theory. The two problems that hold people back are lacking understanding of the principle and the way our mind is trained.

It can't cancel your manifestation, because obviously there is no manifestation near. If it would be near, you would come from a totally different vibration. I can't tell you, if giving up brings the manifestation. Could be, but doesn't have to be. Let's say you stop all resistant thought and no longer notice that he hasn't texted - that would be a big step in the right direction. If you then think a thought like "it would be nice to hear from him", you "giving up" would lead you to the manifestation. But you have to stop resisting and put a little more positive than negative energy out there.

happygirl97 wrote:

It's taking me so much energy!

I visualise,RS, focus on myself and he does not text anymore.
It's so hard to ignore that!

I feel like it isonly draining me. Since 4 months I try to attract him.
I am tired to "chase" him through my imagination.

I do not know if it's worth it all. After all I do not know him fully he just has physical qualities that appeal to me a lot.


I want to be happy!
I do not know what to do!!!

You have come too far to give up now. x  As you know, you have been doing LOA all your life! there is absolutely no reason as to why you cannot do this now.
You seem to have toooooo much resistance and this is understandable, so I suggest that you acknowledge it, take a deep breath and take a step back.
Stop with the RS, with the visualizations and other stuff.
Concentrate on just the gratitude and the looking after you!! you need to look after you for YOU not just so that you can manifest things. That would just happen anyway. 
Let the universe do its thing now. Leave it be. You have put too much in to this for it not to work. YOU need to take a step back. Go somewhere nice...visit family, listen to music that will make you get up and dance, run or even get or make a bloody massive cake and eat it no effing regrets.
When I felt this much resistance I bunched up my panties got my son and I dressed and went to a frigging cake shop and stuffed both our faces!! I felt bloody good after!! The walk there did me good! burnt off extra calories and gained it again but I didnt care!! do something that makes you feel good! We cannot force you to stick with this if you're not up to it. We all can appreciate how hard it can be at times but when it gets to the point whereby it is tiring for you, then something is wrong! just like the others before me have said. They are right!

http://www.thesecret.tv/stories/my-ex-sent-me-a-message/
This person didn't hear from her love in 9 months! 3 months shy of a year! Just pace yourself from now on okay? 

Excelent advices

If it doesn't feel good, then you're doing it wrong, focus on yourself, you need to do something for yourself, something that put your mind busy, like a job, a hobby, learn something, focus on yourself, you need to remember that the other person is a complement of your happynes, but as the way you're looking it right now, the other person is the reason of your happyness/sadness, you need to change that!!! 

You're a great person and you have a lot of blessings on your life, say thanks for that, be proud of your achivements, be happy because you're alive!!!

I know, it's easy to write it but it's hard to apply it, but believe me, you can change your sadness for happyness, I know it because some weeks ago I was like you, sad, frustrated, but now I'm changing my mind, I'm working for myself an my mind is changing, I still have to work a lot in myself, but now, I feel like I can change everything and I can do everything and I can be what ever I like to be!!!. 

If a friend of yours was in a situation like yours, what you will say to him/her? 

Last edited by Kavik (11/28/2016 4:46 pm)