I've seen so many people dwelling on their past story, which is frustrating. I hate seeing people struggle, I am in the same boat currently but watch this space there are stories in the works and I can't wait to share them with you. 

You can't dwell on what was if you want a better now, you can't think bad thoughts and expect a happy ending. I've become such an advocate for this technique people I know outside of here are probably sick of me going on about Neville Goddard, the man was amazing, what can I say? Give this a read if the past is troubling you, practice this daily until it sticks. It's incredible and will help you! 

http://realneville.com/txt/the_pruning_shears_of_revision.htm