my boyfriend left me for his ex girlfriend who has really hurt him. I hated her so much i really wanted her dead I was imagening ways in my head to kill her. I stalked her on Instagram and i was so jealous of her because shes really pretty. I was like that for like 3 months, then i found out about the LOA and i tried not to hate her but it was difficult, i said to myself i did not hate her but i actually did. I visualised me being with my ex but i also had her in my head. I havent heard from my ex about 5 months and then he suddenly called me, it wasnt about that he missed me but is was about something he heard ( he heard a rumor about me sending something to his girlfriend anonymously) i said it wasnt true because it really wasnt, i asked the number of his girlfriend and i called her and talked to her, it was a misunderstaning but the first thing his girlfriend said to me was sorry, that she really felt bad for me for what he did to me (he left me for her) and that she really didnt know about me at all, she found out about me months later, she was so kind i really felt bad for hating her so much. That girl didnt do anything, she doesnt know me, i really understand why this happend to me, i attracted my ex to call me but i also attracted his girlfriend because she was also in my head, thats why this happend, it all makes sense, really! Im so glad i found this out, i am learning everyday, thanks a lot everyone, this forum is a big help. We are almost there!!not to getting back our boyfiends but to happiness! :D