Cherished wrote:

Do you want to know something? I've actually learnt that it's not even about the guy or the girl. It's about finding yourself. About learning to LOVE yourself and love life. When you can build up to that, your life will be one so full and magical and wonderful. And it won't be about "can I get my lover back"..... It evolves into "how can I make this world a better place, and how can I help people to know their power and learn to love themselves?" I have come such a long way, and I want everyone to learn to do the same. 💜🌈

It makes perfect sense to me, over time most of us became the type of person our loves didn't want to be around anymore.    So of course once we start focusing on ourselves and making the world better.  We will attract not only our loves back.  But also others as well