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Jenny · 11/07/2015 2:16 pm

Cherished wrote:
Ok now get off that ride honey! Don't talk about it anymore. Let it go and focus on raising your vibration again. In your mind, delete that story and do your utmost not to go back and revisit it.. it will fade and your guy won't remember it soon.

everything is going to be perfect from now and on!! Thank you Cherished :D I am going to do exactly what you suggest!

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kizikay · 11/07/2015 2:28 pm

Jenny wrote:
kizikay wrote:
As hard as it is, you should avoid sending messages like that. I have been in similar situations with many people (not just my guy). Whenever I stayed calm, they would contact me later, were really sorry and ALWAYS made up for it. If I sent similar messages (and I have sent loads of them :-D), they wud just shut down.
Do you mean that when you sent to people similar messages to mine, they never contacted you again?
:,( I am scared

you are saying I should say sorry? I am really hesitant to reach out for him because I don't wanna hear him to say something that would make me sad.

You really need to relax, taking everything to extreme
Of course they did contact me again or replied to my messages later. In fact I did attract my guy back after much worse texts than yours more than once.
And although most people would disagree, I personally prefer to apologise, if I ACTUALLY did something wrong. Not because I expect reaction from them, but just because it makes me feel better. However I rarely apologise in messed up mood, normally it happens when I genuinely feel sorry and calm.

Cherished · 11/07/2015 2:29 pm

Please do, because you truly can have everything you've ever wanted if you just know it. Seriously, the only thing that will keep the past alive is YOUR focus on it, which recreates more of it. Trust me, I know these things 😜🙋

Jump into joy, as soon as you can.. and delight in the fact that you can attract absolutely anything! Then do it, and watch in amazement! I'm forever clapping and cheering at the marvellous things that I manage to attract to myself these days! 💜🌈

There's really no magic fix, no specific way to do ANY of it. Just make it your mission to appreciate everything and genuinely strive to enjoy yourself. The rest will quickly follow xx

Cherished · 11/07/2015 2:33 pm

And regarding apologies.. You actually need only forgive yourself. Remember, it's not the words on the page that people take notice of, it's your vibration. And honestly, you can resolve all of this in your mind. He will feel it, and you will alter the course if you just forgive yourself. Know that everyone flies off the handle sometimes. Know that you're fabulous. Know that he loves you. Radiate that, and he will warm to you again fast. Don't mess it up by action img in the physical sense any further. Your vibration says it all. Truly. This is easily fixed xx

Jenny · 11/07/2015 3:36 pm

Cherished wrote:
And regarding apologies.. You actually need only forgive yourself. Remember, it's not the words on the page that people take notice of, it's your vibration. And honestly, you can resolve all of this in your mind. He will feel it, and you will alter the course if you just forgive yourself. Know that everyone flies off the handle sometimes. Know that you're fabulous. Know that he loves you. Radiate that, and he will warm to you again fast. Don't mess it up by action img in the physical sense any further. Your vibration says it all. Truly. This is easily fixed xx

Yay! This is easily fixed

Jenny · 11/07/2015 3:38 pm

Dan2015 wrote:
Jenny wrote:
kizikay wrote:
As hard as it is, you should avoid sending messages like that. I have been in similar situations with many people (not just my guy). Whenever I stayed calm, they would contact me later, were really sorry and ALWAYS made up for it. If I sent similar messages (and I have sent loads of them :-D), they wud just shut down.
Do you mean that when you sent to people similar messages to mine, they never contacted you again?
:,( I am scared

you are saying I should say sorry? I am really hesitant to reach out for him because I don't wanna hear him to say something that would make me sad.
I'm new to this. But I don't think you should text him at all, people have gotten back together in way worse situations. I know it's hard. Trust me. If I could. I would text my girl right now and apologize for everything. But that type of stuff. Just pushed them away more I notice. Like in a few weeks or months when you guys talk again. I doubt he will even remember

Thank you Dan2015, I am going to stay calm and clear my vibration and read a lot of loa related articles

Dan2015 · 11/07/2015 3:41 pm

Jenny wrote:
Dan2015 wrote:
Jenny wrote:

Do you mean that when you sent to people similar messages to mine, they never contacted you again?
:,( I am scared

you are saying I should say sorry? I am really hesitant to reach out for him because I don't wanna hear him to say something that would make me sad.
I'm new to this. But I don't think you should text him at all, people have gotten back together in way worse situations. I know it's hard. Trust me. If I could. I would text my girl right now and apologize for everything. But that type of stuff. Just pushed them away more I notice. Like in a few weeks or months when you guys talk again. I doubt he will even remember
Thank you Dan2015, I am going to stay calm and clear my vibration and read a lot of loa related articles

You're welcome. Just read older threads. Some of the main people who have their loves back now, were going through the same things we are now. I'm confident in thinking we all will get what we want. Once we stop posting with fear and desperation

Cherished · 11/07/2015 4:39 pm

Yes indeed! Cut that out, beautifuls!! 😘💜

Dan2015 · 11/07/2015 4:51 pm

Cherished wrote:
Yes indeed! Cut that out, beautifuls!! 😘💜

You're one of the biggest inspirations on here to us, in my opinion. Looking at your older thread. You were wondering how to stay positive about your guy. And now you have him. Just 4-6 months later. And if I remember correctly. You said you were very desperate/needy the first few months.

We have to follow your lead, so many people disappear when they get their love back. But you're here to show us if you can do it. We can do it

Cherished · 11/07/2015 4:59 pm

Do you want to know something? I've actually learnt that it's not even about the guy or the girl. It's about finding yourself. About learning to LOVE yourself and love life. When you can build up to that, your life will be one so full and magical and wonderful. And it won't be about "can I get my lover back"..... It evolves into "how can I make this world a better place, and how can I help people to know their power and learn to love themselves?" I have come such a long way, and I want everyone to learn to do the same. 💜🌈

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