Cherished wrote:

Ohhhhh yeah, can u say DESPERATE?! I was so needy I thought I would die lol!! And yes absolutely, they feel it. I PROMISE. My guy was on the other side of the world. WORLD! I just decided that it totally didn't matter, and that my loving energy would reach him. And boy did it ever. Try to read as many old tgreads here as you can. AND.. Please read the book Ask and it is Given. You will understand so much more. They feel everything. And anybody who has been successful in raising their vibration will tell you the same. The MINUTE I stopped and TRULY HONESTLY had a moment of fun where I forgot my guy, he came from nowhere and wanted to try again. Really truly!

Wow it sounds like you were pretty bad at first, he probably made it seem like you guys would never talk on that level again   But that was probably the energy you were given off.    Also is the book free?     If not.  I'll have to wait until I get paid to get it.         


I think people's biggest problem in not getting an ex back.  Is their fear. Desperation.  Neediness.    It's almost like anything else.    A lot of people including myself.  Feel like we need to cling on something to keep it alive.    But in reality.  We just need to let it go and have fun.    I do believe that when you're positive.  Most ex's eventually come back.       I mean for me personally even ex's I never got back.   We still ended up having convos months or a year later.   But at that time we just didn't connect and in hindsight we never truly did

Cherished wrote:

It's not free, but there are LOADS of threads here to explore if you can't afford it just yet. Please read them, you'll read people's journeys and see their progress.. And you'll better understand LOA. Let go of your repeating of needy and desperate and fear in your writing from now on, yes? Let's move into positive momentum instead of focussing on how people get it WRONG. Let's explore instead how people do it RIGHT! 🌈

Sounds good.   I feel a little change.  In the other thread I called her "love". Instead of "my ex"

This happens when you raise your vibration. I went through a few weeks where I suddenly, out of nowhere heard from every one of my old crushes and boyfriends lol! Even guys I had briefly admired and forgotten about! It was wonderful 😊

Sam wrote:

That's correct. People who are desperate and longing for their love to come back, will not get their love back. They are focusing on what they don't have so how could they possibly get it? That's why detaching is so important. You never have to detach from wanting the person, only from needing the person. When someone leaves your life and you feel depressed and heartbroken, it is because you placed your happiness on their shoulders. You have to be able to be happy and fulfilled on your own. So those people who do get their exes back, typically what happens is they spend a while feeling sad and hopeless, but eventually those feelings start to fade and they being to feel better every day, and as they feel better, better things start to happen, all until they eventually realize they aren't thinking about that person anymore, they are plenty happy by themselves.

This is EXACTLY how it works...

So my darling and I have been speaking fine, but his testicles have been hurting and he is going to one of those parenting clinics to see how it is. As well as see how his swimmers are. For some reason it made me cry because those swimmers are going to be my future children someday and I would hate to think something was wrong with his sperm count. Then I thought about Lanie's method and how I can use it to help him with his health.