As long as you need confirmation from outside of yourself, you aren't fully on the right path.

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esty83 wrote:

Sanshi

Should I start acting and feeling like he is in my life and just accept that knowledge and let it go and know it will happen and just focus on enjoying whatever moment life offers for me?? is this what usually brings it to happening faster/
I noticed that i told god i was grateful for the job and everything in my life and when i went on my interview i saw myself as getting it and felt as if i had it and when i got nervous about start date i allowed myself to feel like i was going to start the day we had agreed and my recruiter called me and confirmed that feeling that same day when i let it go..is htis what i was missing before??focusing on the not having him an dmissing him was pushing him away longer?

Yeah, sounds as if it could very well be the case. You hasn't been around for a while. My understanding of LoA has changed/evolved a bit since last time, so I will tell you how I see it right now. A big mistake that people make that I see is that they still think that there is a solid outside reality that they have to change with their thoughts. That makes it hard, because they are where they are and they look in the direction of what they want, but they aren't there yet. They compare where they are with where they want to go and by doing that offer a vibration of lack. It really helps, at least me, to step back from that illusion of reality. It's just a reflection of your old state of being anyway. If you could take reality a little less seriously and your imagination a little more seriously, things would shift faster, because you wouldn't longer feel the need to look at reality to see that something is in the progress of changing. That is what Abraham mean with satisfied with your thoughts and feelings for now.