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- happygirl97
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- Registered: 1/14/2016
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Feel really confused, like I do not want him anymore bcs of fear...
Heeey,
I do not know whether you can relate to that feeling: you reeeeally have a crush on someone and you fear being rejected. And today, I felt this feeling of " OMG. I want him to be nicer and sweeter to me. Other boys do that . I start to dislike him."
It feels like I love him less because he does not show me his affection in physical reality.
I noticed that I Have so much fear of being rejected. I have other admirers , I know I am worthy and all that.
But this fear actually leads me to disliking him, probably out of the fear of being rejected at some time.
This happened, when I asked him whether he had Lisa's (the girl I wanted to attract for friendship) number and he wrote that he texts with her.
She is not that attractive so I am not that jealous.
I immediately called my best friend Dominik, he cheered me up. He really believes in us. He always encourages me saying that I should not think that way that guys should always run after me like crazy. He still thinks he likes me.
I really want to have a loving relationship, and I want to get rid of the FEAR.
She believed she could, so she did.
- Havefaith91
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Re: Feel really confused, like I do not want him anymore bcs of fear...
what you attract is a reflection of you, so if you feel like he will reject you, that is probably what you will manifest. know that when you truly love yourself and you see how amazing you are people will start to flock towards you. the reason you have these other people interested is probably because you have no resistance to them. you need to readjust your thoughts if you want to have your crush crazy about you! meditate, and use affirmations, until you start believing all of this to be true. you are amazing and you really should work on your self love and confidence because you deserve the absolute best!!! When i first started with affirmations, i felt so weird at first, but if you have ever heard the term fake it until you make it, it worked in my situation!!!
"You can be, do, and have whatever you want. You are the creator of your reality."
- Sanshi
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Re: Feel really confused, like I do not want him anymore bcs of fear...
You are in full control of how he is acting towards you. The problem is that you haven't fully realised that yet. Behind your fear there is a belief that tries to protect you, but it isn't serving you any longer.
What I say now is based on beliefs we are probably sharing. So it's nothing fix, but it could help you anyway: <limiting belief>Guys are different than girls. They have, for whatever reason, not always that strong desire to communicate. That doesn't mean he doesn't like you/has feelings for you. At least, that's what I experienced the past couple of days. This guy who hasn't texted so much in the last weeks is suddenly THAT into me. </limiting belief> And why? Because I ignored reality and focused my attention on what I wanted despite physical evidence of the contrary.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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