Beautiful_1 wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

You can't change the past

I have to disagree with that. You can change the past. It just exists in your thoughts and that means you can change it. The benefit of a changed past is that the present has to change accordingly.
 

 
Hold on i dont agree 100% with this. The past is the past...HOWEVER you can let it not control your future and not let it define your future. It wont matter what happen then. Just acept heal from it and know that the future is better and brighter and bigger than the past

In a world with an endless number of parallel realities in which every single possibility exists there is more than just one past. Of course you can let go of the past completely, but many people aren't able to do that, especially after a breakup. So it's far better to tell yourself a different story until you believe it and alter your future with it than you ponder "your past". You can of course choose to believe in a fixed past, but think carefully, if this belief isn't just a segment of your old belief system.