Thank you I will win either way 😊😊

Howardgirl12 wrote:

You are right. Everytime he comes back into my life. I put up a wall because he hurt me before. That's why I end up saying things like don't play games with me or I don't trust you. I want to let that wall down. I don't want to continue to manifest the old version of us but a better us. How I create that reality.

In a world in which we have no control, that makes totally sense and I think everyone of us completely understands that. But it's actually the other way around. People teach us that you can get hurt in relationship. You believe it, you get hurt. Now you think you have to put up walls to not get hurt anymore, but it happens again and again and if you are honest, have that walls ever helped you? I think we more hurt ourselves with that walls.
How do you create it? Firstly, by stop looking at reality. Stop taking reality that seriously. It's just a reflection of your thoughts. It's simple, but not easy. That's the reason why so many people fail. Are you able to see him act the way you want him to act (and feel it) even when he does the exact opposite? When you can do that, you are there. Then you have mastered your vibration and you can maintain it regardless of your circumstances and that's the moment your circumstances can change quickly. Live what you want in your mind. Be so satisfied with your thoughts, imagination and feelings that you don't need your reality to change. Immerge yourself completely in that new reality and your reflection has to change accordingly, it's law.

Sanshi wrote:

Howardgirl12 wrote:

You are right. Everytime he comes back into my life. I put up a wall because he hurt me before. That's why I end up saying things like don't play games with me or I don't trust you. I want to let that wall down. I don't want to continue to manifest the old version of us but a better us. How I create that reality.

In a world in which we have no control, that makes totally sense and I think everyone of us completely understands that. But it's actually the other way around. People teach us that you can get hurt in relationship. You believe it, you get hurt. Now you think you have to put up walls to not get hurt anymore, but it happens again and again and if you are honest, have that walls ever helped you? I think we more hurt ourselves with that walls.
How do you create it? Firstly, by stop looking at reality. Stop taking reality that seriously. It's just a reflection of your thoughts. It's simple, but not easy. That's the reason why so many people fail. Are you able to see him act the way you want him to act (and feel it) even when he does the exact opposite? When you can do that, you are there. Then you have mastered your vibration and you can maintain it regardless of your circumstances and that's the moment your circumstances can change quickly. Live what you want in your mind. Be so satisfied with your thoughts, imagination and feelings that you don't need your reality to change. Immerge yourself completely in that new reality and your reflection has to change accordingly, it's law.

Thank you you're right it doesn't matter how it is but how I want it to be.

AceWay123 wrote:

For me, enough is enough when I'm not alive.

What I do is, I say to myself that if I don't get this specific person, I will get someone similar to that person, even though I have 100% faith and believe that I  will be together with my specific person and to be honest we already are.

That way I have nothing to lose, because I either get "this" or someome "similar".

So my advice would be, that you don't give up.

Regardless of how many years it takes...

But I would say you change your intention to the example I gave.

That way, there is nothing to lose or worry about.

I remember a posted you made awhile back that states just because we don't see a message physical doesn't mean anything is not happening. That our love feel the love and energy we are sending even if they are with someone else. That other person could remind them of how much that want and love us.

Sanshi wrote:

Howardgirl12 wrote:

Alycat1110 wrote:

And let your walls down. For example, if you have previously had communication problems talking to your love visualize, script or RS having great conversations with your babe. I think the problem really stems from everything is going great but at the first sight of something going wrong, it reminds you of what was. The problem with this is, that if we are truly moving on what was doesn't matter. You don't get to bring it up, you don't get to allow it to bring down your vibration. Let go!! even when I say it I feel so much lighter. I think we just over complicate little things and make them into big things. Manifesting your ideal relationship with this person is a given since you desire it so move out of the way and enjoy the process. That's the best part!

Everything was going good we talk for hours then the weekend comes and I don't hear from him. I decided to call today and he doesn't answer. I let something so little blow up to something so big in my mind. I let the past take over. The past don't matter only what I want.

Did you read my latest success story on this topic? http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=4625 It's a good example how you can make a situation much bigger than it is. Trust and don't ruin your vibe, and everything will unfold nicely.
 

Thank you literally the same. So I'm trust him. I need to trust him if I ever want us to be an us again a better us. Thank you