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Tips Please!?!?
I have been feeling great lately, completely aligned with my Love and I know we are well on our way to our amazing relationship! I am so excited I can't contain myself. However, I find the nights are so bad. Sometimes I am really disappointed that he hasn't reached out since I feel him so much and there is no resistance. I think I do have resistance in the evenings because that's when he reached out last time. Any tips on how to feel great at bedtime too. I visualize and stuff but sometimes that does not make it better. Also, is it possible that he might be feeling anxious and I'm feeling it? Like i said I feel great but sometimes I get this wave on anxiety but I know it isn't my fear....
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What I read out of your post is that you still believe in a "real" reality. You align with what you want and then you look at your reality and you are disappointed, because you don't see the reflection of your alignment. But that means that you are still very aware of the fact that he isn't here yet. If you could accept reality as an illusion and your thoughts as the only reality, you wouldn't longer feel the need to look at reality for confirmation. You would live what you want all day and it would REALise itself completely naturally.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Yes that totally makes sense! It just really brings down my alignment in the evening. I will continue to just feel him with me because that's what I believe anyways. Thanks Sanshi!
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Sanshi wrote:
What I read out of your post is that you still believe in a "real" reality. You align with what you want and then you look at your reality and you are disappointed, because you don't see the reflection of your alignment. But that means that you are still very aware of the fact that he isn't here yet. If you could accept reality as an illusion and your thoughts as the only reality, you wouldn't longer feel the need to look at reality for confirmation. You would live what you want all day and it would REALise itself completely naturally.
Sanshi, what can we do to not be so aware of him not being here yet? I think that is where I also struggle, I align with it and then I am dissappointed when there is no reflection.
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Yes that totally makes sense! It just really brings down my alignment in the evening. I will continue to just feel him with me because that's what I believe anyways. Thanks Sanshi!
You are welcome. 
What I read out of your post is that you still believe in a "real" reality. You align with what you want and then you look at your reality and you are disappointed, because you don't see the reflection of your alignment. But that means that you are still very aware of the fact that he isn't here yet. If you could accept reality as an illusion and your thoughts as the only reality, you wouldn't longer feel the need to look at reality for confirmation. You would live what you want all day and it would REALise itself completely naturally.
Sanshi, what can we do to not be so aware of him not being here yet? I think that is where I also struggle, I align with it and then I am dissappointed when there is no reflection.
I think it isn't really that you can do something. It comes naturally with the understanding of and trust in LoA. The moment you understand that EVERYTHING is your creation, when you understand that there has to be an infinite amount of parallel realities, you realise that there is no point in focusing on the what is and that you thoughts are equally real.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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But we are trusting in the universe. I feel the same way as Nova. I feel his energy around me and I am aligned and I am feeling all of these amazing feelings to the point where it is like I feel like I have to have my phone in my hand at a certain moment because I feel so certain he calling. But then nothing. So then I feel disappointed. I don't lose faith but it is just frustrating.
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Thread Starter- InLakEsch
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But we are trusting in the universe. I feel the same way as Nova. I feel his energy around me and I am aligned and I am feeling all of these amazing feelings to the point where it is like I feel like I have to have my phone in my hand at a certain moment because I feel so certain he calling. But then nothing. So then I feel disappointed. I don't lose faith but it is just frustrating.
When you feel like you have to have your phone in your hand you become attached to a certain outcome. You need to let that go. You're trying to do the universe's job at that point and then it backfires when he doesn't call and then the doubt seeps back in. Have faith and detach.
In lak ech. Ancient Mayan for "you are my other me"
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