I doubt you've hurt your chances, as long as you're not thinking negatively about him I doubt it's a problem. It sounds like you're detached from the outcome, which is great. You're aligned with it and something will manifest. Don't force anything, though. ​

sara315 wrote:

Im just tired of focusing on wanting him

Maybe you just put it mistakable, but you shouldn't focus on wanting him. By doing that you only get more of wanting him and that's what most people are doing wrong.

I think it's natural that you don't want to think about him anymore. You normally don't think about the same thing all day, right? That's pretty boring for your brain. And there is no point in focusing on it all the time, because it isn't necessary. You are always sending out a vibration, if you think about something or not. And as Abraham tell us, you vibration on a topic is where you last left it. So, when you can manage to align with what you want and then never think about it again, it has to come and it will come fast, because you don't offer any contradicting vibration.