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Question about detachment
I've done some soul-searching the past few days and for the most part, I think I have pinpointed the causes of my resistance, what originally started off as a journey to manifest my guy has slowly turned into one to find myself. I'm making a lot of progress, a few months ago I was a blubbering pessimistic mess, but that's my old story I've got a better one in the works. For this sake of this post I'm going to briefly bring up my guy, I still have a death grip on the outcome, I've manifested him back before but this time I found myself holding on more and sending out so much resistance. I've started mentally repeating a phrase when I get conflicting thoughts, so far it's silencing my mind whenever I say it and I can think a better thought. I'm still attached, though, how do you deal with that? Could you suggest some affirmations?
Thank you for your time!
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Hope this helps. I wrote all these down and put them on my fridge to look at and read out loud every day. It actually has done a lot for me.
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Thank you so much! I've learned a lot on this journey and I'm still learning, I get very intense when it comes to achieving goals, in this type of situation though it's hindering and not helping. Time is only a number though, I'll get there. 
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Exactly 
detaching was my last step. I was wondering why I would only manifest signs and not the real deal. I still hold on a little bit but practicing detachment and mindfulness will help a lot. Much love
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I think it happens naturally with time. At some point, you just start to make how you feel more important than who is or isn't with you. At some point, I was so tired of chasing a guy that I decided to chase happiness instead. 
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I'm hoping to get to this point soon, my moods have been all over the place lately so I did soul searching and discovered I'm putting too much importance on him, I feel strongly for him but he's not going to fix me, with lack of a better term, I've got to focus on me. He's already mine anyway so he'll be here to share in that.
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You are amazing on your own. You don't need a man. You can be happy without anything and everything will come to you.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
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Staceylouuu91x wrote:
I'm hoping to get to this point soon, my moods have been all over the place lately so I did soul searching and discovered I'm putting too much importance on him, I feel strongly for him but he's not going to fix me, with lack of a better term, I've got to focus on me. He's already mine anyway so he'll be here to share in that.
Exactly. You need to shift the focus to yourself. Feel good for yourself and once you accomplish that then act as if and everything will fall into line.
In lak ech. Ancient Mayan for "you are my other me"
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