Hi, everyone!

I'm here to share something with you. I know many people here want to read posts related to "how to get your ex back" (myself included). Althought this post isn't (directly) about that, I promise its concept can help in all areas of manifestation, including Ex Back situations.

I was coming home a few hours ago by bus. I seated beside a girl, she had a so serious face, reading a book. I said "good evening", I noticed she heard me but she didn't even look at my face. Actually I got the impression that she didn't want me sitting beside her or stuff like that, I don't know. There she was, minding her own business, in a "don't disturb" vibe. I was a bit impressed by this but at that precise moment I saw two clear choices:

1- Let her mood influence me.
2- Not let her mood influence me.

I chose number 2. I understood that I didn't know what was inside her head and decided that she could be in a bad day, just that, nothing towards me, nothing personal. I put myself in a different place. I left the place "I don't know why she doesn't like me, what the hell did I do?" - and went to - "I'm a great person anyway, there's nothing to worry about". So I relaxed and ended up thinking about other things of my life, keeping my positive vibe up. Around five minutes later (I'm serious) the situation changed ENTIRELY. Then a third option appeared:

3- Influence her with my mood.

She closed the book, put it inside her bag and took out a magazine. And that's the part that shocked me: she litterally turned to me and asked me if I knew a perfume brand that was in that magazine (I don't remember the name). She had a sweet voice, totally different of the one I imagined, based on MY INICIAL PERCEPTION of her. So we started a friendly chat about perfumes and we ended up adding each other on Facebook. We noticed we have some mutual friends, etc. When she got off the bus, I was still thinking: That's it! I changed my perception of her and did it in a so relaxed way that there was no resistance at all. I was like "I don't care, I love you anyway" behaviour, no pressure, you know? 

Now, what does it have to do with manifesting an ex back? EVERYTHING! The sole difference is that we deal with it in a so "hard" way, we are not "soft" about it, because we have doubts on the future, about what the ex is thinking, blah, blah... But think for a moment: For the Universe, every manifestation is made the same way, they have the same weight, there's no easy/hard to achieve, these are just labels we give, based on our fears. Fear is an illusion. We can focus on what we want, we can be relaxed about it. If we can change a person's behaviour toward us so easily (I did it in five minutes), THE SAME CAN BE DONE WITH EXES. If you think that they don't love you anymore, change that! After all, they loved you before, remember? That was YOUR manifestation too. You can do it again. And again and again and again... No pressure. And, who knows, they can still love you so deep inside that even them don't know it, have you thought about that possibility? The key is to be soft my friends. That's the lesson I learned today. May this bring inspiration to you as it brought to me. 

Love, Light and Gratitude.