barbidoll wrote:

Darling Princess   breathe deep    first  is this someone you have broken up with    or someone you feel a strong desire for?
 If its the latter   remember  those things take a little more time    You will not be alone   as long as you only think positive thoughts     none of that  alone  crap      I did the same thing    I lost the love of my life because of extreme negative thinking and actions     ( yes stupid)   Had no knowledge or understanding of LOA     I have drawn celebrities   novelists  personalities etc to me   in my life     still working on getting my love back     and clearing all negativity out of my life    When I lost him I obsessively thought   I was to be alone forever   and I was doomed    I would say it all the time    and guess what ???    So now I say    I am drawing my love to me in a perfect way     I will have a brilliant and glorious life  Let me know what I can do to help sweetie

Hi Barbi =)
Thanks for responding!
This is someone I have a desire to know. I haven't met them in real life.
I do want to think more positively but I recall these times where I attracted people I didnt want (like over the summer, attracting an obsessive guy and before that, attracting a guy online who turned out to be a narcissist, and those incidents made no sense to me, becuz my vibes aren't always low...I have happy moments)
I guess I just don't want a repeat of last year--loving someone that wasn't appreciative of my attention.
And I guess Im talking crazy cuz my target is the complete OPPOSITE of the guy I loved--this person is very caring...
 

Sanshi wrote:

It's your choice of course and in my opinion, moving on is always a good thing, because it's much easier to attract someone unspecific due to our former belief system.
But still, I want to tell you that it is possible to attract that person to you. A problem I see in your post is a bunch of limiting beliefs that are holding you back. Why do you have to accept to be alone? That implies that you don't feel like you have control and that you are the creator of that all. Furthermore, it shows that you have some issues with your self-worth and without knowing your exact thought processes, I would assume that this could be one reason why you attracted not so cool guys in your life. You can't attract loving guys while you feel unworthy of their love.

 
Hello, Sanshi! ^_^

The 'alone' comment came from me often feeling misunderstood, and I was quite sure (and still believe) my target would understand me. Other than comparing myself to others from time to time, (my art skills or the way I look) I thought I was making strides with my self-worth.

I think maybe the one thing I cant seem to forget, is the fact I spent 2 and a half years loving the unappreciative guy. And moved on for three years, then last year he ups and contacts me on AOL messenger telling me he hopes I am well. And I respond. I finally think we're getting somewhere, when he stops responding. I get him to talk a little on Snapchat but not the way he talked to my friend. Finally last December I gave up.

And I saw what kind of person he was; he lost a lot of fans (as an Pop/ R&B artist)
because he doesnt really care for his fans like he says he does.

And even before this guy, I've had other crushes that didnt work out...

Thinking about just working on myself and a novel I've been writing for the time being; using LOA for that...

Last edited by princessgirl87 (11/06/2016 2:02 pm)

princessgirl87 wrote:

barbidoll wrote:

Darling Princess   breathe deep    first  is this someone you have broken up with    or someone you feel a strong desire for?
 If its the latter   remember  those things take a little more time    You will not be alone   as long as you only think positive thoughts     none of that  alone  crap      I did the same thing    I lost the love of my life because of extreme negative thinking and actions     ( yes stupid)   Had no knowledge or understanding of LOA     I have drawn celebrities   novelists  personalities etc to me   in my life     still working on getting my love back     and clearing all negativity out of my life    When I lost him I obsessively thought   I was to be alone forever   and I was doomed    I would say it all the time    and guess what ???    So now I say    I am drawing my love to me in a perfect way     I will have a brilliant and glorious life  Let me know what I can do to help sweetie

Hi Barbi =)
Thanks for responding!
This is someone I have a desire to know. I haven't met them in real life.
I do want to think more positively but I recall these times where I attracted people I didnt want (like over the summer, attracting an obsessive guy and before that, attracting a guy online who turned out to be a narcissist, and those incidents made no sense to me, becuz my vibes aren't always low...I have happy moments)
I guess I just don't want a repeat of last year--loving someone that wasn't appreciative of my attention.
And I guess Im talking crazy cuz my target is the complete OPPOSITE of the guy I loved--this person is very caring...
 

Sweetie   just focus on what you want    and then relax  immerse yourself in things you love to do     if in the background of your mind  there is a lot of negativity   it will be what you attract  even if you have happy moments    Do whatever it takes to  keep your mind  completely away from anything negative     I have never tried online dating   but I know several women who have here in my office    be very careful       no sweetie  youre not talking crazy    just remember to be clear what you want     do your visualizations in joy   and never let doubt  worry or past bad experiences get in the way of your  meditations or visualizations