I give up...he dont want a relationship..he want be a alone. he began go out with his ex ....he want enjoy his life..he want sex ...he dont say things which I want hear... I try 8 months... and nothing.. I always attract his call or text or one night.... why? all these was uselles... he say me all wrong things..he was bad to me
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This is a vibrational journey and until you aren't able to change, nothing can change for you. Your reality is a mirror. It can't do anything other than reflecting back your own vibe to you.
but what I do wrong Sanshi.I sent him love and light, I think about him just good things etc..and he tell me this..he was really bad .I saw that he tell me because he wanted hurt me..I didnt recognize him
His friend tell me that he said that Im *****
I never have this behavior I don't know have a sex with another boy I can have sex only when I love and he know It...so why?? He said that he don't know why he tell him it and apologize me but its so ugly from him..
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You are still telling us how it is. You say you think just good things about him, but is it really a good thing that he called you *****? I don't think so and it's surely not the reality you want. But still you are focused on it. So you get more of that. Your posts are far from being aligned with what you want and so it's not really surprising that those things happen.
But I don't tell how is it and I focus good things really.but today I saw his friend and he tell me this and we are went go out with my ex and I wanted hear from him what he tell about me.so he apologized me but he said it what I wrote this posts...his father tell him that he have enjoy his life too.because he had 19 years old when he get married and he is divorced and I have a feel that my ex have a bad experience from his father and so he don't want relationship.I don know .I know that I create my reality but I think that some things I don't know to affect.when he had bad childhood....I don't know what I have do...
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You are still telling us how it is. You say you think just good things about him, but is it really a good thing that he called you *****? I don't think so and it's surely not the reality you want. But still you are focused on it. So you get more of that. Your posts are far from being aligned with what you want and so it's not really surprising that those things happen.
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And when will my posts in aligned with what I want?
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When you start to think new thoughts that are aligned with what you want. It could take a week, it could take a lifetime. It's up to you.
But I started think new thoughts and whats is happened..I didnt think that he tell me these things
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I guess you should listen to Bashar's video 'circumstances dont matter " he says that your reality is the echo of your past thoughts and they appear same until you change the way you react to it. There are many things he said that i cant recall. But it was very helpful.
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