1 - Kavik
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I feel discouraged
Today I was doing it fine, I do some exercise, read, see some series, even I transplant a little three I have, but this afternoon I see her facebook (it's hard to controll it) and see that she is doing things, changing and I feel sad because I want to be part of this changes, I like to ask her how she feel or cheer her, I want her asking me my opinion...
I know, I don't have to think like this, I read a lot of LOA and on this forum but somethimes, you know the theory but it's hard to apply....
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- AceWay123
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Re: I feel discouraged
Do it in your Visualization.
After all, the best connection you have with her...
...is her soul.
If you see her upset, in your Visualization, talk to her, ask her how she feels, tell her you are there for her, make her smile and believe she has received it, because its real.
No matter how many things she changes, she can't change your connection.
You have real love for her, she likes it and wants more of it.
Never give up.
There are different routes to the same destination.
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Re: I feel discouraged
I know how you feel, especially with the social media thing. I've started carrying small pieces of paper with positive quotes on them if I feel the need to stalk him. Its working so far. 
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Re: I feel discouraged
Kavik.....get off the social media if it helps for sometime.....I used to do that often and trust me all the vibration used to get 0 ....U just need to have a little more confidence on yourself.....women dont like needy men or men who looks like they can do anything for us.....we need a man we can depend on.....so get yourself in a good place first....i used to almost die if my man didnt text me for a day,....sulk sulk and sulk....but it took me only one day to decide 'thats it" and its been almost 5.5 months that I didnt text him......it needs that "Moment" restrict her from your fb....that way she isnt blocked but u cant see her page....this helps....and keep talking to her soul.....watch the videos of AB , especially one named "creating a lover" its really good.
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Re: I feel discouraged
In such moments, go off the subject completely and focus on something else. That's the best way to not ruin your progress.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
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Re: I feel discouraged
Imagine all of the good things you want! Imagine being a part of those changes with her you in the pictures with her, you laughing and having a good time with her!! That is all yours as long as you get your vibration up. Imagine that and feel it and it will happen for you. It can't happen when you feel so down. Keep the faith you have got this!!!
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- Kavik
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Re: I feel discouraged
AceWay123 wrote:
Do it in your Visualization.
After all, the best connection you have with her...
...is her soul.
If you see her upset, in your Visualization, talk to her, ask her how she feels, tell her you are there for her, make her smile and believe she has received it, because its real.
No matter how many things she changes, she can't change your connection.
You have real love for her, she likes it and wants more of it.
Thank you so much for your words, you help me a lot, I talk to her soul and do all the things I wrote in my visualization 
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Thread Starter- Kavik
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Re: I feel discouraged
I know how you feel, especially with the social media thing. I've started carrying small pieces of paper with positive quotes on them if I feel the need to stalk him. Its working so far.
Thank you, I will try it, I need to work on this anxiety and live my life, I'm glad it's working for you, I hope it works for me too, also I try to keep my mind occupied, that helps me but when I finish to do something I have this impulse to salked her :s
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Thread Starter- Kavik
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Re: I feel discouraged
Kavik.....get off the social media if it helps for sometime.....I used to do that often and trust me all the vibration used to get 0 ....U just need to have a little more confidence on yourself.....women dont like needy men or men who looks like they can do anything for us.....we need a man we can depend on.....so get yourself in a good place first....i used to almost die if my man didnt text me for a day,....sulk sulk and sulk....but it took me only one day to decide 'thats it" and its been almost 5.5 months that I didnt text him......it needs that "Moment" restrict her from your fb....that way she isnt blocked but u cant see her page....this helps....and keep talking to her soul.....watch the videos of AB , especially one named "creating a lover" its really good.
You're so strong and I admire you how you do it, how can you handle the impulse to stalked him or write him?
Somethimes I said to me something like "it's enough", and it works for some hours, but on the afternoon puf, I'm doing it again :s
I try what you said, but it's hard because I want to se what is she doing 
Thank you for the video, I wille see it
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Thread Starter- Kavik
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Re: I feel discouraged
In such moments, go off the subject completely and focus on something else. That's the best way to not ruin your progress.
Thank you, you're right, when I'm bussy I have no problem, but it's when my mind is free and I'm on the computer this happends.
I will do a schedule to get my mind bussy and continue working on myself.
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