Great post!  I had been slipping up thinking about their behaviour and then I realised it was my responsibility to get a different response from them by thinking about the positive aspects of our relationship and affirming all the things/how I want it to be.  So, I started to focus on their positive aspects again and script positively in the present tense, and out of the blue I got an invite to join him and a friend out for drinks just yesterday and we had a great time.

I think the number one thing is to keep a positive focus about the relationship with them and to feel good about all aspects of your life.  ONLY ever focus on how you desire the relationship to be.  Then visualise a scene that depicts exactly how you want it to be between you two and get into the feeling of joy that comes from that and then trust that it is so.  The universe will line up the details.

Last edited by Little Red Robin (10/25/2016 1:02 pm)

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Little Red Robin, that's so true. The last few days I've just been so positive and my mindset has completely changed. I kept replaying past arguments and I started imagining things that weren't true but now I'm jut so different. I shake it off and completely ignore them and then I reaffirm all the positive things about him and I and visualise us perfectly together. Best of luck to you ☺️❤️

Yes, that's brilliant!  It takes time to retrain your mind to really just focus on the outcome you desire.  As Neville says 'live from the end'  feel it as you want it to be and then trust.<3