When you're trying to manifest your special person or anything else, the wrong question to ask is: "Why is it taking so long?"

The right questions are:

"Am I doing anything to push it away from me?"

"Am I focusing on the opposite of what I want?"

"Am I complaining or criticizing too much?"

"Am I filled with resistance that won't allow it?"

"What can I do to start moving into alignment with it?"

NOW you're on the right track! :-)