When you notice that your situation is impossible that means that you, before you came to that conclusion, considered every single reason why it feels impossible to you. And that again means that your focus was on the things you don't want. You can't think three positive thoughts about him and then look, if he is already there. It simply doesn't work that way. By taking score, you hold the vibration of what is active within you.

Your situation is as it is right now and that's okay. Accepting it is the best way to deal with it and the only way to move forward. You have to find a way to focus on what you want and don't give any attention to the part of your "what is" that you don't like. I always had a problem with "acting as if", because while I did this I was very aware that I was faking it and so I didn't do it right. I found a way for me now to see it in a different light, maybe it can help you too. Nobody can force you to think about what is, you are not obligated to do that. It's your habit, yes, but with a little bit of effort you can change that. I see it now simply as thinking about what I want. I don't do it to make anything happen, but because it feels better than looking at what I don't like. This way, you don't feel like looking for evidences all the time, because you don't try to force your reality to change and the more relaxed you are the easier manifesting gets. When you are not yet in the position to get/accept/implement that it's alright. You are where you are. You can only move forward and you will. Take your time and be patient with yourself. I'm on that journey for a year now and I've grown immensely, but there are still things I don't understand and I want to learn more about. You will never reach the place where you have everything you want and where no desires are left. You will always be incomplete, so be okay with your incompleteness and accept the speed you are moving forward.

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

On paper my situation seems impossible. I've been blocked on everything, he changed his phone number and there's distance so I can't reach him even if I wanted to, I really want this to work out. I've been trying but nothing seems to be happening on the surface. Just not sure how I can pick myself up from this. I've never felt so strong for a guy and the feelings for him haven't weakened in the few months we've not spoken. How do you all pick yourself up? 

It's been a long time since I posted on here but quickly, my history. I got my love back twice and one was an impossible situation, she was engaged and living with her ex. But this time my current situation is worst than ever, completely blocked and deleted out of her life, changed her number. She's in a new relationship. I find getting someone back is very easy, but what holds most ppl back, including myself is anger and hurt and the past. Its been over 12months for us but I am not ready to even attempt to try to get her back. Still so much anger, hurt and rage in me. Thats pretty much it.

Maybe we could go along this journey together