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Slow Going
Hey everyone. It's been a little while since I've posted, so I thought I'd stop in. First of all, it's fantastic seeing the success stories--they definitely give me hope for my own life.
My love and I haven't spoken since May, and the time lag is starting to bum me out. I know time and space don't matter, and I push myself not to stress, so there's that. I do see her name everywhere, though, as well as thousands of little signs: I met a girl with her name who wears her hair the same unique way as she does, then someone with a dog with her dog's name, and I'm even seeing references to her in movies lately. These are unbidden, which makes me appreciate them. Do you guys have any experience with signs of this nature?
I do, in my gut, feel like we're already together, like we're tied together forever, but it's hard not hearing from her. I am manifesting daily (back on the horse after struggling to keep it going for a couple weeks), and working on myself pretty hardcore.
Do you guys have any solid advice for what I can do to help speed this along? I suppose I have some lingering doubts that this will work, but I'm not sure how to quench them. Thanks in adva ce, everyone.
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TheChemist wrote:
I do, in my gut, feel like we're already together, like we're tied together forever, but it's hard not hearing from her.
Do you see how that two statements contradict eachother? It wouldn't be hard not to hear from her, if you would really feel like you were together. But you don't. You can't fake your vibration. When even I can read it in your post, the Universe can do it too.
The problem is that you do all this to get your manifestation. You can't force the universe to deliver to you. The more you want it, the more you are aware of its absence, the less it is coming. Relax, lean back and don't put so much energy in it. Don't take your What Is so serious. Why do you tell us that you haven't spoken since May? That's what holding you back. Your focus is still on stuff you don't want. Why do you give it your precious attention then?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: Slow Going
this may help you out!
"You can be, do, and have whatever you want. You are the creator of your reality."
- TheChemist
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I think you make a good point, Sanshi. I hadn't realized the contradiction until you pointed it out. Do you have any advice for focusing on what I do want? It seems like focusing on what I want exposes that it's not there sometimes, and that's hard to release.
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I think you make a good point, Sanshi. I hadn't realized the contradiction until you pointed it out. Do you have any advice for focusing on what I do want? It seems like focusing on what I want exposes that it's not there sometimes, and that's hard to release.
When that happens, you focus on what you don't want and not on what you want. You can feel where your focus is. When it feels good you are on the right path. When it feels bad go off the subject for a while until you can find thoughts that feel better. It isn't that easy to give an advice that helps you, because I don't know where you stand and I know how often my view on things has changed in the last months and how often things resonnated or don't resonnated with me. But maybe look at it this way: Your current reality is your past thoughts. That means that they are no more real than the thoughts that you are thinking now. The only difference between the thoughts that became your reality and the one you think now is that you have practiced the old ones more until they felt true to you. When you want an orange, but you have only an apple at home you have two choices. You can look at the apple and think about how you don't want this apple and ask yourself why the hell you didn't buy oranges instead or you can go and buy oranges. The only difference between the apple and the orange is that you already paid for the apple and made the effort to bring it home. It needs a little effort to go and get the orange, but in the longrun it's more satisfying than hating the apple.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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[...]and that's hard to release.
And that's a story that you are telling yourself. You can choose to see it as easy.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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