[b]That's absolutely disgraceful you should get your money back. No desire is stupid and no desire is worth giving up. As long as you believe it can happen, that is all that matters. Don't listen to negative people. They are not important. What is important is your feeling and beliefs. I'm sorry that you had this experience but no way is your desire stupid. What is stupid is someone telling you your desire is stupid! No-one has a right to do that. [/b][b]Veronica Isles would never do that - she's way more encouraging and wants you to receive your desires [/b][b]Think positive and believe you can have your desires.[/b][b]Stay clear of this other so called 'coach'[/b][b]People on this forum will support you [/b][b]I hope you get your desires [/b][b]Don't let anyone tell your desires are stupid because they are not Simple as that. If you truly desire something, then negative opinions don't matter. Focus on what you desire, stay positive, be grateful and believe that you can have it It's not possible and it's definitely NOT stupid.[/b][b]Sending love and light to you [/b]

I think all those get your ex back coaches online are bullshit. I bought a program about 2 years ago that cost me 70e and gave me the same advice as you get online for free. As long as you will go so far as to pay to get your ex back, you're in the vibe of desperation. Looking at free articles online is fine as long as you don't spend hours. Your focus and your energy needs to be directed at things that are a. Happening now and b. Working. Your ex isn't around you today, but your boss is and maybe your parents are or your friends or a TV show or a radio programme. Focus on what's going on around you, then you'll start waking up. Use visualisation at night or in the morning but during the day, get all that stuff out of your head because you're causing resistance. Then you'll find that two things happen, you become more relaxed and you naturally stop thinking about your ex and that whole problem. I would then even stop visualising. Because when you stop trying with all the processes after you drilled your desire into yourself, you will naturally start vibrating on that level
At the end of the day you have a desire to be with him but you have a greater desire to be happy and relaxed so by stopping yourself thinking of him, you'll start to feel better. You actually will. So you will have gotten your deeper desire first and then your other desire will probably come along

I just want to point out, because I Don't want to paint a negative picture of this coach, that it wasn't a specific "get your ex back" coach, this was a law of attraction coach similar to veronica in that sense. I don't want to paint a bad picture as if I was scammed, however noticing some hypocritical messages had recently gotten me down.

Staceylou and ShootingStar: you're both absolutely correct. I even got this same tip from a friend yesterday. The beliefs and methods are drilled in my head. My focus now should be on grounding myself in the here and now. Connecting more with source. She even pointed out getting outside more, because staying inside has been causing me to become disconnected! Like as if I'm walking, but my feet aren't touching the ground. It was amazing how she put that into perspective.

I've been looking up more grounding meditations to do/binaural beats to listen to. 

I also love xoSam and Jensherratt's points! Thank you for the reinforcement. And xoSam you're so right, it hurts because it's not true. The breakup had gotten really ugly for us because of things he was supposedly saying about me, from what I was hearing through other people. But deep inside it was hurting me so much because I couldn't find the truth in it. It didn't add up or make sense. It was a very confusing time. And even now, I still can't fully believe that that could be true....and it's not true. But that's why it would hurt so much!

Thanks everyone for helping me to make sense of what's going on in my head.