Hello again… I deleted my last thread because of personal reasons with my ex. We have had some interesting developments over the past week.  A little over a month ago my fiancée broke up with me due to problems in our past relationship. We have been together for almost 4 years. There was a third-party in the mix and I was completely distraught. That's how I found this program.  I've been on it for a little over a week. And have seen some interesting changes. My ex and I live together so no contact was very difficult to do.  But somehow we've gotten through it OK. At first it was very difficult. Because I was getting so many mixed signals from her. She wanted to be friends. But she still continues to not really treat me like a friend.  She continues to be very affectionate with me. I read up on remote seduction. And started practicing that for a couple of days to see if anything happened. And it did. After a couple glasses of wine and a nice dinner she wanted to make out session.  It was interesting. I didn't let things get out of hand because I knew emotionally I couldn't handle it. But all in all we had a pretty good night. She has told me repeatedly that she doesn't need time away from me. That she wants to live in the moment and not think about the future. So today after having a nice breakfast she made a comment that she so glad that we don't fight anymore. She explained that she feels that we don't fight because we're not together.I told her that I disagree.  I told her that I felt we didn't fight because after many years I finally listened. I've changed how I react to situations and I'm just trying to be happy. We talked a lot today. The other person in this equation  is only a friend. She stresses to me that that is all she wants.  She cannot see her self with that person. She also said that she wants me to find my happiness. To go out and live. I asked her if that meant seeing someone new. She said if I wanted to to go for it. I asked her how  she would feel about that. She said she would be jealous. But if it is what I wanted and she would have to live with it. She's not necessarily encouraging me but I think she's leaving the door open for whatever it is that I want. She said she wanted us to be the best of friends right  now. That she doesn't know what the future hold for us. But that she doesn't want to lose me.  I know that she met someone a few nights ago from another state that Iasked her out. And I know that she is talking to him on social media. Apparently this guy  works in her field of study and has an amazing job up north. I have asked her if she is interested in dating him. She said that she's not thinking about that. And anyway he lives very  far away. I don't know if he would be considered a rebound or not. I think she's just trying to see where this road leads her.   But at the same time she is hanging on to me. She made a comment today that she feels that I don't want to date anyone because I'm holding out hope that she and I will get back together. I told her that I would love to have a life with her eventually, but I don't know what the future holds for us. But that I'm in no way limiting myself and closing any doors that may open for me. But the honest truth is that I am holding out hope.  I have no interest in anyone else right now. Definitely not a relationship. We have four years together. We have a family. We have history.  And I honestly cannot see myself with anyone else. Because I know we are meant to be together.    I know the universe brought us together. And I have no doubt it will bring us together again when the time is right. I'm doing my best to follow the program and do what I need to do for me. Some days it seems to be working because the way she acts with me shows me how much she cares. And she did tell me today that she loves me. That she has never doubted her love for me.  But as far as being with someone intimately right now is not what she wants. She said she can't really see herself with anyone right now.   So I'm not sure where that leaves us. Do I continue to do what I'm doing for me and hope that the universe sees fit to return her to me?  We have so many plans still in play. From birthdays to holidays to a vacation in January which coincidently is our anniversary. I  keep a vision in my head that by January we will be celebrating our anniversary.  A new anniversary. Not the couple we used to be but the couple that we've grown to be.   Any advice?