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I don't post here often at all, but I do read through this forum nearly every day because I find it interesting and at times, to help raise my spirits and confidence in the LOA.
One thing I have noticed though is that many times, the LOA perspective is not there in these threads. For example, I've seen posts (in more than one thread) that say things along the lines of "Why do you want this person? You can do better" or things like "Maybe you are not meant to be with this person". While I understand that responses like these may sometimes be necessary for someone who is not finding happiness in working with the LOA to attract back their person and would feel better "giving up", most other times, these responses are similar to things you would hear from the other people in your life who do not deliberately work with the LOA. Veronica has said that you are supposed to have your desires, and even channelers like Bashar have said that your ability to desire something is your ability to manifest it. So, though it may be true that someone may not be "meant to be" with their particular person in the long run, they are still desiring them, and should still be able to attract what they like with them. And statements like "You can do better" shouldn't even apply here unless it is said to help boost a person's view of themselves and the situation, which would help them in attracting back their person. Because such a thing is focusing on "what is". Shouldn't we be focusing on the version of the person we desire to be interacting with, instead? I'm sure in many of the cases on here, "you can do better" could apply, but we are here because we desire a brand new relationship, regardless of what ugly things have happened in the past or are currently still happening. They are illusions, and we have the ability to change them.
This post was not directed at anyone, and I'm not writing this to start conflict. I just believe that the LOA always works and that we all hold the ability to be attracting WHATEVER we want to. And in an LOA forum, we should only be encouraged to do so.
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I second this!!! Great post sunny!!
With no offense to anyone.. even i got suggestions and replies like these...(i know they have suggessted these things to me or any other thinking of my good,or someone else's good)..
But my point then where we who are aware of Loa are different from people who don't know loa!!
Loa makes imPOSSIBLE things POSSIBLE... with trust and believe... that's what loa is all about!!!
I personally don't believe in things like "not meant to be" in Loa..... if we can attract the situation of "not meant to be" ,we ourselves can attract the situation of "meant to be".....π
Love..sunny...ππππ
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LoveIsGod wrote:
I personally don't believe in things like "not meant to be" in Loa..... if we can attract the situation of "not meant to be" ,we ourselves can attract the situation of "meant to be".....π
So true!
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Do you know what though, youre right but the real thing is from a loa perspective the sooner you start seeing you are better than your desire, meaning you can get better, the sooner the original desire falls into place ;) think about it. When you start taking the shine off the star, the star becomes ordinary. Think of all the people who have gotten their ex's crawling back after they've got over them. There was a post on here just a week ago about this happening. If you believe you can do better, the resistance dies and the desire is free to come
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But you also need to be careful about what you wish for, your desire might not be your real desire. Who really wants a cheater or a liar or a person who plays around with peoples feelings...no one! No one WANTS that, so when someone says that person is their soulmate, what are they really saying ?? That their soulmate is a liar and a cheat? He may look nice and have a great laugh or be smart but he lies and he cheats..those are the parts that show up. Or he plays around and is cruel. If someone loves someone who shows up that way to them then it really indicates that person does not love themselves. So if they get that desire, they will live miserably because they will still always subconsciously be aware the person they are standing with lies and cheats and betrays and how can they ever really feel safe and happy with that? That's why its important to tell people in that position to think better and to let better in their lives
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"If you believe you can do better, the resistance dies and the desire is free to come" -true evenπ @shooting star
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"Who really wants a cheater or a liar or a person who plays around with peoples feelings...no one! "
- true...no one wants..!
But yet again ,in Loa it is said that what has happened to us till date we have attracted the situation.. Veronica in her videos and books time and again told this!
If this wasn't really the case then how can a person who once cheated, and hence a cheater becomes loyal in his/her later relationship..??!!ππππππ
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LoveIsGod wrote:
"Who really wants a cheater or a liar or a person who plays around with peoples feelings...no one! "
- true...no one wants..!
But yet again ,in Loa it is said that what has happened to us till date we have attracted the situation.. Veronica in her videos and books time and again told this!
If this wasn't really the case then how can a person who once cheated, and hence a cheater becomes loyal in his/her later relationship..??!!ππππππ
I really agree with her on this. We are the creators of each and every experience. I remember how I used to freak out when my guy was seen in a pic with a girl. I kept sneaking as to find out whether there was something between them and there were many times I used to think like what if this girl turns out to be his gf. And boom it happened. I was so disheartened.
But he never cheated me he still loved me when he was dating her that's because his family and circumstances made it mandatory for him to take that step. ( my thoughts created it)
Today again I have him very much fascinated by me. Adoring me. We are in touch now after no contact of 6 months. Am sure if I am believing we have to be together that will be too manifest.
So again, we create every experience. So think wisely
Last edited by Scarlet Angel (9/15/2016 12:45 pm)
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ShootingStar wrote:
Who really wants a cheater or a liar or a person who plays around with peoples feelings...no one! No one WANTS that, so when someone says that person is their soulmate, what are they really saying ?? That their soulmate is a liar and a cheat? He may look nice and have a great laugh or be smart but he lies and he cheats..those are the parts that show up. Or he plays around and is cruel. If someone loves someone who shows up that way to them then it really indicates that person does not love themselves. So if they get that desire, they will live miserably because they will still always subconsciously be aware the person they are standing with lies and cheats and betrays and how can they ever really feel safe and happy with that? That's why its important to tell people in that position to think better and to let better in their lives
From a non-LOA perspective, I totally agree! But, hasn't mostly everyone who is trying to attract back their ex experienced things about them that they didn't like? Isn't the goal of deliberately working with the LOA on this to attract a BETTER version of the person you desire to be with, and ultimately a better relationship? Maybe not everyone believes in parallel realities, etc. but I believe that there are many versions of a person that you can experience, based on the energy you are giving off. So instead of beating the same drum of having a relationship where this person lies and cheats, I think it's better to focus on what you want with them regardless of how they currently appear to be.
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πππππ @ scarletAngel
And yes sometimes both the negative/positive happens fast and sometimes it happens late..
But yes positivity is way more stronger than negativity...π