TheChemist wrote:

Where do you guys stand on seeing other people while visualizing/manifesting our loves back? On the one hand, it feels good to be liked/wanted by someone, but, on the other, it's not one of those things I'll do once we're back together, so seeing other people almost feels like violating the 'live as if' principle.

As a cool aside, though, the person I was intimate with said she could see herself falling for me, which made me feel pretty badass, so there's that.

It's as wolf said. Do it, if it feels good to you. Honestly, after gaining some knowledge and experience about and with LoA I think "live as if" is bs. Why? Because it's not about your actions, but about your thoughts and feelings. You can put another dish on the table, but feel like faking something and it won't help in any way. And think about it, most things in your life you have attracted without faking anything. LoA is purely about your thoughs and therefore your feelings and therefore what manifests. For the universe it isn't a contradiction to your desire. It's a cultural thing that you only want one girl. The universe don't care about your culture. If you ask for two woman without resistance, you get both of them. Your limiting beliefs will probably prohibit that you can have them both at the same time, because you think they wouldn't like that so much, but it is you who is blocking that, not the universe.