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manifested, but then...
hi lovely people, I am having a really hard time today.
last night I met my guy, after like 6 months without seeing each other. we've also been texting for the last month or so (he initiated). the texting has been extremely boyfriend-y I was shocked, but went with it.
to cut it short, yesterday we met and he behaved sweet and caring as he used to do... but at the end of the evening he said something about all this being useless since we live in different cities and we might not even meet again.
I'm so hurt.
I know this can totally turn around, I just need some encouragement and maybe opinions on how the hell did I attract this lol?!
"The world is yourself pushed out. Ask yourself what you want and then give it to yourself! Do not question how it will come about; just go your way, knowing that the evidence of what you have done must appear, and it will."
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Re: manifested, but then...
frannitea wrote:
hi lovely people, I am having a really hard time today.
last night I met my guy, after like 6 months without seeing each other. we've also been texting for the last month or so (he initiated). the texting has been extremely boyfriend-y I was shocked, but went with it.
to cut it short, yesterday we met and he behaved sweet and caring as he used to do... but at the end of the evening he said something about all this being useless since we live in different cities and we might not even meet again.
I'm so hurt.
I know this can totally turn around, I just need some encouragement and maybe opinions on how the hell did I attract this lol?!
First of all, congratulations for that success. I don't know your thoughts, but did you see an obstacle in you two living in different cities?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: manifested, but then...
hi lovely people, I am having a really hard time today.
last night I met my guy, after like 6 months without seeing each other. we've also been texting for the last month or so (he initiated). the texting has been extremely boyfriend-y I was shocked, but went with it.
to cut it short, yesterday we met and he behaved sweet and caring as he used to do... but at the end of the evening he said something about all this being useless since we live in different cities and we might not even meet again.
I'm so hurt.
I know this can totally turn around, I just need some encouragement and maybe opinions on how the hell did I attract this lol?!First of all, congratulations for that success. I don't know your thoughts, but did you see an obstacle in you two living in different cities?
Thank you sweet Sanshi, and thank you for answering.
I must admit I've always been doubtful about having a long-distance relationship. Also because the first time he left me was exactly because of this. But I also thought we would definitely find a way... so I don't know. I might try and erase the beliefs about us being apart.
"The world is yourself pushed out. Ask yourself what you want and then give it to yourself! Do not question how it will come about; just go your way, knowing that the evidence of what you have done must appear, and it will."
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Re: manifested, but then...
Isn't that good to know? So, you manifested him saying that by your thoughts. I'm sure it was the reason, so you can fix that easily. I would concentrate on the wonderful interaction with him and working on your beliefs about long distance. I started using the Abe techniques that you can find in Ask and it is given. Maybe that can work for you, too.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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