Even When Circumstances Say You Can't, Manifesting Is A Choice When you decide to follow the law of attraction it is a personal choice. You don't have to understand it, but you must hold the belief that there is something other than our physical reality at play. 
Suppose you are having trouble overcoming how your circumstances only matter to you. It is important not to worry about your feelings on the topic. Don't compare yourself to them. Just ignore them. In this way, you remove the past's influence.

After experiencing things that cannot be explained, you will slowly discover that believing that they don't matter does not matter without having tried.