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I was quite lazy at work yesterday and spent far too much time reading about the latest Olympics goings on than working. It's that time of year when it is quiet, but busy - ie not many people about, but a lot to do so you have the time to get on with it in peace. But I have put in so many hours lately, I felt a bit lazy and rebellious. Then I began to chastise myself for being lazy and I felt awful. I then told myself I had worked long hours over the call of duty so I was due a bit of "me time".
This made me think - do we sometimes find ways to make ourselves feel better, and move up the "emotional scale" and avoid taking responsibility for things? Make excuses for ourselves? And how is the best way to do this so we genuinely raise our vibration and allow good stuff to come, rather than make excuses for ourselves being lazy, rude, clingy or whatever we feel bad about? And actually change the "bad" behaviour?
Just a thought. What do you think?
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wolf wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
do we sometimes find ways to make ourselves feel better, and move up the "emotional scale" and avoid taking responsibility for things? Make excuses for ourselves?
I don't understand this part, maybe, but are you implying that taking time to feel better = avoiding responsibility?
I meant that, if I have done something wrong whatever it may be (in my example I felt guilty about being paid for a day when I hadn't worked a full 7 hours, but spent some of that time doing my own thing) that if I try to make myself feel better about it, I am not facing up to what I have done wrong and allowing myself to behave badly and be excused for it.
That is just one example, there may well be others that people think about.
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