wolf wrote:

Do you feel like responding anything?
If you don't, just let it slide. But don't stay thinking that if it seems like you're leaving someone hanging,
they won't contact you again because they will and it won't be about the thing you didn't respond to.

If you want to respond, it's not a big deal, her answer,
so I'd just respond something short like well perhaps another time then.
You might be surprised by how fast that another time can come, too.

You're doing really well.

oh ya i want to  respond . I dont want to leave hanging for days even though she did to me.  I am not playing a  game like "oh she waited two days so i will too." I think that is silly.  I have reached out to her and she has been actually really good at responding. before this last message it was instant responses things have been good lately. Not great but better.  I get that she is busy she has work and apparently seeing someone but she at least gave me an answer. She could've easily had not responded.  but just said "not this sunday with a 🙁 emoji".  Just want to respond with sure no biggie,just thought because you dont work on sundays it probably wouldve been best for you.  If there is a better time of the week just let me know 🙂. take care and have a good weekend" something along thos lines i guess.